sonocativo
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Well, today was an average day, started out as usual waking up with severe back pain. The step-daughter took my son and went to her boyfriends for the 4th, The step-son went to his dads, so my baby momma and I were home alone.... with a twist.
We decided to go out and shop or window lick... ended up buying a few things... she got a new purse and some clothes, I ordered windows for my house and we went to eat. This was one of those rare days we didn't fight/argue about anything. While we were eating my wife started talking about how she has been observing me and noticed a lot of good things.. I wasn't sure what to make of it yet, then I noticed she was wearing her wedding bands that she took off permanently a year ago.
We talked about a lot over our meal and we decided to fix things rather than run from them, she knows Im a good person and has put up with a lot on both sides.
Theres a lot of details I wont get into since its too much to get into, but she is going to have a talk with her kids as there is going to be a lot of changes since there is no more "our" house.... She plans to sell her house and will move into the house she calls "My" house, as I told her Im not going to be possessive as she is with her house but I do expect the kids to pull their own asses ( clean up after themselves ) and help around the house. There is a lot to do still but its falling into place now. Today has turned out to be a great day and a turning point in our lives,.
My wife has been taking courses and has become a professional Dog trainer with her show dogs, and tonight she told me she joined to start learning to train service animals, she is being donated a Chocolate lab puppy to train and we have the choice to get it after extensive training of 1 year, she wants to train it for me and get it for me as well.
She has transferred to a new position at work and is now enjoying it as well since she is less stressed, she is a lot happier.
We decided to go out and shop or window lick... ended up buying a few things... she got a new purse and some clothes, I ordered windows for my house and we went to eat. This was one of those rare days we didn't fight/argue about anything. While we were eating my wife started talking about how she has been observing me and noticed a lot of good things.. I wasn't sure what to make of it yet, then I noticed she was wearing her wedding bands that she took off permanently a year ago.
We talked about a lot over our meal and we decided to fix things rather than run from them, she knows Im a good person and has put up with a lot on both sides.
Theres a lot of details I wont get into since its too much to get into, but she is going to have a talk with her kids as there is going to be a lot of changes since there is no more "our" house.... She plans to sell her house and will move into the house she calls "My" house, as I told her Im not going to be possessive as she is with her house but I do expect the kids to pull their own asses ( clean up after themselves ) and help around the house. There is a lot to do still but its falling into place now. Today has turned out to be a great day and a turning point in our lives,.
My wife has been taking courses and has become a professional Dog trainer with her show dogs, and tonight she told me she joined to start learning to train service animals, she is being donated a Chocolate lab puppy to train and we have the choice to get it after extensive training of 1 year, she wants to train it for me and get it for me as well.
She has transferred to a new position at work and is now enjoying it as well since she is less stressed, she is a lot happier.
