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I run off on account of you give me a hard time about sz (schizophrenia).
 
deaftears said:
I run off on account of you give me a hard time about sz (schizophrenia).
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Then why did you come back?

This forum is not devoted to mental illness, and if that is all you can talk about, or you can't stop talking about your delusions, the same thing will happen over and over.
 
I got a private message inquiring as to my well being is why I came back and my issue is being very alone and deaf. I'm not all about sz. Some people know me and don't even know.
 
deaftears said:
I got a private message inquiring as to my well being is why I came back and my issue is being very alone and deaf. I'm not all about sz. Some people know me and don't even know.
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I don't even think you are deaf. You didn't mention in any of your internet ravings prior to finding this site you were deaf, did you?

Plus deaf people are not usually obsessed with musicians.

I even find whiny people with borderline personality annoying...
 
You won't like this but that first King Crimson album with the shriek o mimi face on the cover??? The catholic kids got hold of me, looked at that and said, "Let's."
 
deaftears said:
You won't like this but that first King Crimson album with the shriek o mimi face on the cover??? The catholic kids got hold of me, looked at that and said, "Let's."
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What?? I have no idea what that means.

Do you realize that two late deafened people seem to be the only ones who have any idea what these references are??

Why don't you go bother some hearing forum?
 
I want to be friends with you. I want you to realize that I'm deaf and came through a struggle for my dignity.
 
deaftears said:
I want to be friends with you. I want you to realize that I'm deaf and came through a struggle for my dignity.
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Smithtr suggested you to find a psychiatrist and tried to explain to you that no one wants to know all these personal revelations of yours.

We are not here to pay attention to you and validate you.

Only a therapist is going to be that indulgent of you. In my opinion, you should be getting cognitive behavioral therapy where you would be stopped from spouting this nonsense and directed on how to successfully integrate into society.

All your threads on one subject are very inconsiderate.
 
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I want to be friends with you. I want you to realize that I'm deaf and came through a struggle for my dignity.
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And on the subject of friends, friends do not just yammer on and on about their poor pathetic past.
 
If you look at the opening post objectively you will see that I was trying to steer away from the sz issues that find you unbalanced.

It's upsetting to come to a support group and not find support, but you made your case. I'm still deaf. I'm still one of you.
 
deaftears said:
If you look at the opening post objectively you will see that I was trying to steer away from the sz issues that find you unbalanced.

It's upsetting to come to a support group and not find support, but you made your case. I'm still deaf. I'm still one of you.
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No you are not, and even if you were, this is a social website.

It is not a support group!!!!
 
deaftears said:
Social website where you speak for everybody.
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Or I am the only one left speaking to you.

But for now I am off to bed, so you can continue bothering those still awake.
 
So your answer is that social websites are inherently non-supportive. I'll keep that in mind.
 
deaftears: You should pay close attention to what Bottesini has keyed back to you.

As for your "comments" re "support" why is it important to you that Alldeaf.com be cognizant of your self declared schizophrenic "comments"?
Validation of your "distorted thinking"?The connection to your "self declared Deafness"-obscure to say the least!

aside: I am bilateral DEAF- since December 20, 2006. Not everyone here "agrees" with what I have have keyed to date, To the best of my knowledge I don't "suffer/have" schizophrenia
 
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Thinking this guy is a phony...and his ramblings just bored me to ....death.
 
You are NOT really asking me to clarify the way that my deafness relates to the allegations of schizophrenia, but since you appear to ask I will answer. I was tortured as a child, deafened, and letters taunting me about it were sent to me. When I tried to get help with what the letters say I was told my interpretation was related to my sz. Nice and neat. It allows this woman who tortured me and taunted me about it to walk away laughing.
 
deaftears said:
I run off on account of you give me a hard time about sz (schizophrenia).
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I ribbed you once before but I didn't give you a hard time in your thread. I really tried to show compassion and understanding, James. Don't reject ME because I am not capable of seeing what you're seeing. I do want to be friends. You're obviously a very intelligent person. I would like to bring that out and hopefully get you more involved with your life using ways that do not include despair. I know nothing about schizophrenia so I cannot help but I do want you to be happy.
 
Thank you. I don't so much mind being made fun of a little, but the people who act like they speak for everyone and crush the life out of me fill me with pain.

I went through a holocaust myself. I realize that some of what people take for sz. happened for real and they just don't have the wisdom to realize that is the case, or they enjoy siding with oppression.
 
Talk therapy makes schizophrenia worse.

So anytime you people respond to this guy in talking about his fantasies, you reinforce him and make him worse.

If he really wants friends he is capable of participating in threads of general interest and ignoring his schizophrenic aspects.

You truly are making him worse if you acknowledge his delusions.
 
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