Gay marriage, Obama and the fierce urgency of now: Why did he do it this week?

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Even now, during the closing months of his first term, Barack Obama remains a curiously elusive political leader. That is why the abrupt conclusion to his evolution on gay marriage, announced Wednesday in an interview with ABC’s Robin Roberts, is one of the most fascinating moments in his presidency. Glib theories about Obama’s often-cautious approach to the presidency, especially in an election year, have to be revamped in light of his sudden endorsement of gay marriage.

There is a temptation to view the turnabout solely in electoral terms. Obama himself said that the politics of same-sex marriage “may hurt me.” But perhaps the president made the calculation that he was willing to risk the loss of a fraction of socially conservative swing voters in states like Ohio in order to guarantee the enthusiasm of his top fundraisers. (A Washington Post analysis found that almost 20 percent of Obama’s bundlers have publicly revealed that they are gay). Maybe there is even private Obama polling indicating that November turnout among voters in the millennial generation is apt to be higher if the president took a firm position on gay marriage.

Such political narrowcasting misses an essential truth about Obama: his pride and his fear of embarrassment. Joe Biden, by offering an emotional response to the gay-marriage question Sunday on “Meet the Press,” left Obama looking like the Cowardly Lion unable to find his heart until after the election. For Obama to keep mulling the issue as if he were taking a private course in Talmudic Studies would make the president seem faintly ridiculous.

Even if the gay-marriage issue was seen as a dangerous distraction by Obama’s reelection campaign, all the president’s handlers could not wish it away. Whether it was the awkward necessity of writing evasive language for the gay marriage plank in the Democratic platform or seeing his campaign surrogates constantly grilled on the question, Obama undoubtedly knew that his room for maneuver was constrained. So the president, after 72 hours of reflection, did the right thing.

Both as an African American and as the nation’s first president who grew up after the climactic days of the civil-rights movement, Obama undoubtedly has wondered how he would have reacted if he had found himself on the frontlines of that transcendent moral issue. Obviously, no one is opposing gay marriages with dogs, fire hoses and billy clubs. But this issue is the closest proxy that 21st-century America has to offer to the which-side-are-you-on struggles of the 1960s. In moral terms, it is quite possible that Obama could not personally endure further equivocation.

In making his decision to walk down the aisle with gay marriage, Obama underscored his awareness that poll-tested politics can only carry you so far in the Oval Office, even in an election year. During Saturday’s campaign kick-off rally in Columbus, Ohio, Michelle Obama told the crowd that the problems that reach the president’s desk “are the ones with no clear solutions--the judgment calls where the stakes are so high and there is no margin for error.” The first lady may have been alluding to the raid that killed Osama Bin Laden, but the same principle could be extended to the president’s decision about his public support for gay marriage.

[Related: How will Obama’s gay marriage decision affect his re-election campaign?]

In November 2003, the highest court in Massachusetts ruled that gay marriage was legal based on the state constitution. The Massachusetts governor at the time--who by a weird twist of fate was Mitt Romney--vehemently opposed the decision by the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court. Massachusetts Senator John Kerry’s struggle to defeat George W. Bush in the 2004 election was complicated by the liberal high court decision in his home state, even though he distanced himself from the ruling.

During the 2004 campaign, it would have seemed ludicrous and embarrassingly naive to imagine that a future president--especially one facing a difficult reelection campaign--would endorse gay marriage. Maybe in 2028, but certainly not in 2012. But such is the engine of social change, slowly chugging up the hill with I-think-I-can determination and then dramatically accelerating once it is over the crest. With an unequivocal statement by Obama on Wednesday, gay marriage suddenly became codified as--at minimum--a bedrock principle of the Democratic Party.

When political handicappers rattle off the hard-to-predict variables that will shape the election and the challenges of the presidency in 2013, they invariably point to the economy and global threats such as the Iranian nuclear program. But such armchair attempts at prophecy are often too cautious and the horizon too limited. Sometimes, it is as simple as a president confronted with a moral choice--and his awareness that the time for temporizing and hand wringing is over.

Gay marriage, Obama and the fierce urgency of now: Why did he do it this week? - Yahoo! News
 
I am neither, for or against gay, inter-racial, or straight marriage. As far as the government should be concerned it is nothing but a contract to combine assets. Why is it the business of anyone but the 2 involved the reason behind the combining or marriage? If people spent more time taking care of their own affairs maybe they would not have time to stick their noses into others peoples business. Government needs to back off there are enough laws and enough medaling in personal affairs.
 
That's good to hear about Obama support same sex marriage and the same sex marriage isn't major concern for 2012 presidential election, however economy is our major concern.

I'm fine with privatization of marriage - great alternative.
 
I am neither, for or against gay, inter-racial, or straight marriage. As far as the government should be concerned it is nothing but a contract to combine assets. Why is it the business of anyone but the 2 involved the reason behind the combining or marriage? If people spent more time taking care of their own affairs maybe they would not have time to stick their noses into others peoples business. Government needs to back off there are enough laws and enough medaling in personal affairs.

It means you support privatization of marriage?
 
No it means I support freedom of choice and support the need for the US government to do what they were created for, provide for the common defense not try to rule everyone’s life, track each of us, keep better watch on our bank accounts that we do ourselves. They need to be reminded that they work for us and we do not work to provide for them. I think they should all be voted out but there are many other issues they need to look at rather than personal choice, and marriage is a private matter anyway and not really the business of other than the ones involved.
 
No it means I support freedom of choice and support the need for the US government to do what they were created for, provide for the common defense not try to rule everyone’s life, track each of us, keep better watch on our bank accounts that we do ourselves. They need to be reminded that they work for us and we do not work to provide for them. I think they should all be voted out but there are many other issues they need to look at rather than personal choice, and marriage is a private matter anyway and not really the business of other than the ones involved.

I like your way of thinking. Marriage came long before any government was formed. My thought is that marriage belongs to the religion orgainizations of the world, after all that is how it got started. However, America and most other countries have civil unions and/or partnerships. These protect the patrner's legal rights. So, I would like to see a seperate marriage which the government has no concern over and a civil union and/or partnership which the religion origainization have no concern over. People can have one or both or none.
 
People make the voice what they want. Govt will do what people want. Make it happen.
 
Same reason the Republicans are trying to railroad the "ID to vote" thing. Timing. It could change the outcome.
 
While I don't agree with gay marriage I do think that there are far more important issues facing our society today. Our government is too big and out of control.
 
While I don't agree with gay marriage I do think that there are far more important issues facing our society today. Our government is too big and out of control.

Oh yup, most Americans are not concerned about marriage and I don't think that his stance on marriage will going affect his election, however economy and debt are most concern for election.
 
No it means I support freedom of choice and support the need for the US government to do what they were created for, provide for the common defense not try to rule everyone’s life, track each of us, keep better watch on our bank accounts that we do ourselves. They need to be reminded that they work for us and we do not work to provide for them. I think they should all be voted out but there are many other issues they need to look at rather than personal choice, and marriage is a private matter anyway and not really the business of other than the ones involved.

In bold that you stated, it is very clearly that you support privatizing marriage and it means put government out of their business to define the marriage.

If not understand, secondly, it means government has no business to define on marriage and they are not charge to offer marriage license anymore.

During privatizing marriage, religious institution or organization are in charge to offer marriage license, not from court or government building.
 
In state with constitution ban on same sex marriage, some gay people managed to got married in private manner, unfortunately, their marriage is unrecognized to government. It means they are not qualify for same rights as married couples who got marriage license from court. It means no jointly taxes and no insurance benefits for spouse, usually only for government workers, however there are some private sector offers insurance benefit to spouse of same sex, especially UPS.
 
I like your way of thinking. Marriage came long before any government was formed. My thought is that marriage belongs to the religion orgainizations of the world, after all that is how it got started. However, America and most other countries have civil unions and/or partnerships. These protect the patrner's legal rights. So, I would like to see a seperate marriage which the government has no concern over and a civil union and/or partnership which the religion origainization have no concern over. People can have one or both or none.

Marriage doesn't belong to religion.
I mean if "religion" started with Christ then how could Mary & Joseph be "married" before their child was born?

Anywho moving on, I'm in total agreeance with Sares.

I believe that the Government (Australian and American) should let the people decide.
 
Government, gay, and marriage wow what a topic. I am going to stick with just marriage. Just a bond between 2 people and those 2 alone. This should not involve religion, government, or other people. Religion got into it as a ceremony. Government got into it for the money, another license to be issued. Why do we feel that everything needs a license, it is just another tax. The only approval you should ask is that of you family and even that is not NEEDED.
Approved by constitution? Again a small group of small people trying to control the lives of many. Why? For their benefit not the peoples, who should care what 2 private people do other than the 2 making the bond. Whew I have to get off the Government Issue; there is not enough RAM in all the computers for me to write about this subject and the miss use. I am sorry you may tell I get riled by government interference at home, middle east and everyplace else. Gays get married and enjoy, Black, white, purple, also get married and enjoy. “Do what you will, but harm none other”
 
Government, gay, and marriage wow what a topic. I am going to stick with just marriage. Just a bond between 2 people and those 2 alone. This should not involve religion, government, or other people. Religion got into it as a ceremony. Government got into it for the money, another license to be issued. Why do we feel that everything needs a license, it is just another tax. The only approval you should ask is that of you family and even that is not NEEDED.
Approved by constitution? Again a small group of small people trying to control the lives of many. Why? For their benefit not the peoples, who should care what 2 private people do other than the 2 making the bond. Whew I have to get off the Government Issue; there is not enough RAM in all the computers for me to write about this subject and the miss use. I am sorry you may tell I get riled by government interference at home, middle east and everyplace else. Gays get married and enjoy, Black, white, purple, also get married and enjoy. “Do what you will, but harm none other”

I don't disagree with you and you are making a good point. I have same feeling as you do about marriage should be in private matter.

When government took control of marriage so I have to join and fight to get same equal as others.
 
So he lost the gay vote, plus steeled the resolve of the anti-gay marriage block? Really? Is the "gay patriot" writer really a gay person, or simply a Conservative pretending to be one?

"Gay Patriot" is just funny phrase. :lol:

Majority of gay people voted for Democratic Party.
 
I agree with Obama's endorsement for gay marriages b/c I strongly believe gay ppl are born that way.
 
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