To me, two jobs is nothing.
I've worked 4 jobs (two full time, two part time) while going to school part-time and raising a kid as a single parent. (Thank God for family!) It was stressful, but I made it through OK. I decided to cut down on jobs because I got one with insurance, benefits, better pay, and still allowed me to go back to school part-time. That's the job I'm trying to go back to. Plus it allows me freedom to spend time with my DD and gives me freedom to go have a bit of fun on weekends if I choose to.
On the farm, I just work. That's it. I don't get to spend time with my DD, I don't get to go to school part time, and it's a 6-day a week job with no insurance, no benefits, no paid time off, nothing. I feel like I'm going in circles on the farm. I don't want to spend the next 10 years on the farm. I don't want to be right where I'm at now because I can't get off the farm.
My aunt believes this farm is the best thing for me. She thinks I won't find a better job outside the farm and sometimes I wonder if she tries to find ways to keep me on the farm.