Eh, don't flame me for saying this: But I believe implants helped me a lot more to do with a lot of the success in my life than without it/using ASL alone and helping me to not to cocoon myself within the deaf community alone. I feel that with my implant, I am able to freely interact with the hearing and deaf world alike without needing any people interpreters and the ability to speak to anybody...hell, even to the point of learning another foreign language such as spoken Spanish and Chinese (No way you can learn those two languages if you can't hear or speak and use ASL only, right?) (although I would like to learn ASL if I do get to meet and talk with more ASL users). I am glad that my father decided to give me the Cochlear Implant at 3 years old, and if he could do the choice over again, I would encourage him to give me the cochlear implant. I would even give my child a CI if he or she were born deaf.
Despite what the Deaf community thinks about the CI and deaf identity, I do still consider myself deaf no matter what, even with the CI....because no technology now is perfect enough to completely replicate the natural hearing mechanisms.
However, I believe that all parents should be given a choice about what to do with their child's deafness instead of being forced to one way, as this is a free country.