Confess To Me!

Hmmmm (rubs chin) I like to study people and I am usually labeled "a snob" during the inspection. I am typically guarded at first and extremely blunt because I dread vulnerability (is that linked with sensitivity?) but lately I've been shrugging my shoulders and laughing more often. Not caring a wit about people's opinions is helping me enjoy life a wee bit more.

Wow.. completely forgot the point of this thread o_O

Oh yes.. I am sensitive to some extent, I am a stereotypical woman after all :P
 
jinxedkitten said:
Hmmmm (rubs chin) I like to study people and I am usually labeled "a snob" during the inspection. I am typically guarded at first and extremely blunt because I dread vulnerability (is that linked with sensitivity?) but lately I've been shrugging my shoulders and laughing more often. Not caring a wit about people's opinions is helping me enjoy life a wee bit more.

Wow.. completely forgot the point of this thread o_O

Oh yes.. I am sensitive to some extent, I am a stereotypical woman after all :P
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didnt notice.
 
rockdrummer said:
I wear my heart on my sleeve. At times I am intense and at times I am sensitive. One thing for sure is that you will know either way.
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Same description of my personality along with what Oddball said about going into autopilot. I have been bullied, rejected, and picked on for so long growing up that I just stopped caring what people except for those who are important to me think of me.
 
TheWhiteTiger said:
short fused as well.. when young, any dude pisses me off big time, they see a fist or two coming toward their faces.. one time a guy was trying to harrass my girlfriend, during the hall break between classes, I got to him, teacher saw it.. tried to break it I swing the punch, the teacher got the black eye instead of that dude who deserves it... he realized I am sensitive about people bugging my girl. I was like hey I respect their space and stuff but it doesnt mean I neglect my girlfriend and let anyone harrass them. Same thing with other dude who did not respect my girl's body..i get sensitive about that as well... I smashed his car windshield, headlights, and tires.. had witnesses but we all kept it silent for years until about 8 yrs later, I finally told him.. he said he forgave me already because he was wrong in the first place.... Now at this current point, I still have that but in mature and more appropriate manner.

On some days, for some reason in calm mood I often just laughed in their face.... like they were being awarded as laughingstock.
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No offense, but you sound like you used to be a real jackass. Jealousy is not an attractive trait, man. How do you know when someone is harassing your girl or just talking with them? And you just go out swinging without first politely stepping in and telling the guy to back off? :roll:

Good thing you've changed... here's hoping at least...
 
my mom says i'm exactly the same as my dad.. my dad doesn't show any emotion at all, and i've only seen him cry once. it's true.. :shock:
 
TheWriteAlex said:
No offense, but you sound like you used to be a real jackass. Jealousy is not an attractive trait, man. How do you know when someone is harassing your girl or just talking with them? And you just go out swinging without first politely stepping in and telling the guy to back off? :roll:

Good thing you've changed... here's hoping at least...
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yes I was a jackass or a jerk but before I get into those guys face, my girlfriend kept complaining, and I had her try to stop it herself first. If it fails I have to take her place for her sake. That explains why I am pissed... sorry if I wasnt clear on that part. I was jerk lot of time which didnt bother me until I became a father. And I have no jealousy thing. Those are old days. But doesnt that tell my girlfriend I care about her feelings around other guys? I think it did. The boys back then didnt have any respect.
 
anakin said:
my mom says i'm exactly the same as my dad.. my dad doesn't show any emotion at all, and i've only seen him cry once. it's true.. :shock:
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yeah I can relate to that...I have cried a lot when I have a huge emotion breakdown. But I get heartbroken and throws a fit when I lose a friend to death.
 
TheWhiteTiger said:
yes I was a jackass or a jerk but before I get into those guys face, my girlfriend kept complaining, and I had her try to stop it herself first. If it fails I have to take her place for her sake. That explains why I am pissed... sorry if I wasnt clear on that part. I was jerk lot of time which didnt bother me until I became a father. And I have no jealousy thing. Those are old days.
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Ah, well I suppose that's a bit different. :ty: for clarifying. I agree, sometimes you just gotta be the man and lay the punk out, cause he isn't going to listen to anything else but your fist. (Not that I've had to do that personally, but I would if necessary). Alcohol is almost always involved.
 
I am sensitive to sad movies, bad news, the regular emotions that connect with the event. I don't have all that extra stuff:lol:
 
TheWriteAlex said:
Ah, well I suppose that's a bit different. :ty: for clarifying. I agree, sometimes you just gotta be the man and lay the punk out, cause he isn't going to listen to anything else but your fist. (Not that I've had to do that personally, but I would if necessary). Alcohol is almost always involved.
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You are welcome, Yeah that was when it was necessary.
 
anakin said:
my mom says i'm exactly the same as my dad.. my dad doesn't show any emotion at all, and i've only seen him cry once. it's true.. :shock:
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I don't think I've seen my dad cry once in my life :hmm:
 
Jiro said:
I don't think I've seen my dad cry once in my life :hmm:
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I've seen my dad cry far more times than he has seen me cry. He's an Italian, so what do you expect. :D



I know.. raaaaaaaaacciiiiiiiiissssssttttttttt!!!!!!!!!!
 
TheWriteAlex said:
I've seen my dad cry far more times than he has seen me cry. He's an Italian, so what do you expect. :D



I know.. raaaaaaaaacciiiiiiiiissssssttttttttt!!!!!!!!!!
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italian? what about talking loud all the time while gesturing wildly? :lol:
 
Jiro said:
italian? what about talking loud all the time while gesturing wildly? :lol:
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Nah, he doesn't really do that. He's a New York Italian, from the Bronx. But man, he's cried, or been on the verge of tears so many times in my life I can't really keep track. And when he cries, he bawls, like a baby.
 
I am very shy, sensitive and tend to overcompensate. (most folks have no clue or would deny that) I have lots of love to give, believe in telling someone something nice when I see it. (Such as compliments and appreciation). I dont always stick up for myself but I do get really upset for others sake.

My real friends are folks that I dont drop. My long time friend is from first grade. (we tethered our mastodons together) Most others I have known and loved over 20 years.

My friends from work are pretty nice. They come and go. Other clerks and secretaries are pretty nice. I was so surprised...really surprised...when I lost friends with my hearing. Few folks in this town are real friends now. That made me really sad. I dont verbalize much. Boss tends to make fun of me. eh, so what?

Then, there's you guys..... uh boy...
 
Jiro said:
Rainy Jane? that's kinda a cool nickname though. Based on your posts and "Rainy Jane" name... this is what I'm visualizing - a quiet Jane in Amazon jungle with heavy rain pouring down. You're just quietly sitting under a giant leaf that's sheltering you from rain and you're having a peaceful time, thinking deep.

:grouphug:
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Thanks Jiro - that was really nice. :ty:
 
TheWriteAlex said:
Nah, he doesn't really do that. He's a New York Italian, from the Bronx. But man, he's cried, or been on the verge of tears so many times in my life I can't really keep track. And when he cries, he bawls, like a baby.
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ask him to post something in this thread. sounds like a man who is in dire need of confession and I will absolve him of shame.
 
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