No Bond: Man Shot Daughter's B'Friend

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APOPKA, Fla. -- An Apopka man accused of shooting a teen that he caught having sex with his stepdaughter will not be allowed to bond out of jail. Wade Edwards is facing second-degree attempted murder charges after he caught the couple in the act.

The family of 18-year-old Julian Harp knows he's lucky to be alive.

“He could have told him to get out of his house instead of shooting him,” Harp’s brother Dmeric Collier said.

Thursday night, Wade Edwards arrived home to an unpleasant surprise. His 16-year-old stepdaughter daughter and Harp were having sex inside the family's Apopka home.

According to a police report, Edwards walked in on the two having sex. He left the girl's bedroom and Harp quickly threw on his clothes fearing something bad might happen.

Edwards walked into the room again, this time armed with .45-caliber handgun. Harp asked Edwards not to shoot, but police said he fired four times as he left the house.

Then Wade called 911 to report what he'd done (911 call).

"I saw someone.. someone was inside my house... with my daughter and I shot him, I feared for my life," Edwards told the operator.

“Is she a juvenile or teenager?” the operator asked.

“Yes.” He replied.

“And you walked in on them and they were there and he scared you?” asked the operator.

“Yes. I feared for my life, I didn't know what to do,” he said.

“But your daughter knows this gentleman?” asked the operator.

"I don't know ma'am, I don't know," he said.

Harp was hit in lower back, buttocks and twice in his left leg. Harp walked across the street and collapsed. A passer-by helped him until rescue crews arrived.

It didn't take that many times to let him know something. Shot him four times,” Harp’s aunt Gloria Windom said.

Police arrested the stepdad and charged him with attempted second-degree murder. An Orange County judge denied Edwards bond so he will stay in jail.

Edwards’ criminal past includes weapons and assault charges in Saint Croix.

Apopka parent Bill Goff told Eyewitness News what he'd do if he found his child in bed with someone else.

“I think I would have been irate. I may have been physical and thrown the person out, but I don't think I would have shot him,” Goff said.

Harp's aunt Gloria Windom agrees.

“He could have popped him beside the head and said, ‘Get off the girl,’” she said.

His relatives said Harp and the girl have been dating for over one year and it is the first known time there's been a confrontation involving the stepfather.

Sex between a 16-year-old and an 18-year-old is legal in the state of Florida.

By law, an adult under 24 can legally have sex with a minor no younger than 16. That law is called the “close in age exemption."

However, if the adult is 24 or older, then sex with a 16-year-old becomes a second-degree felony.

No Bond For Man Who Shot Daughter’s Boyfriend - News Story - WFTV Orlando
 
The daughter should had known better. Don't bring someone into your parents' house without their knowledge or permission.
 
This dude views his daughter as his property. That's why he retaliated against a guy that "damaged" his property. What a sick man. His daughter can't get away soon enough.
 
The daughter should had known better. Don't bring someone into your parents' house without their knowledge or permission.

Yes, I agree with that. Seems to have been a lot of friction between the girl's stepfather and the b'friend.

It's really sad in a way....and I don't quite agree with Florida law about this. Never would I want to come home, and find my daughter in bed with her boyfriend. But I would not shoot the guy. The stepfather went too far. He's going to jail for awhile over this, probably thinking he was "saving his stepdaughter's honor". But in reality, the stepdaughter couldn't care less!
 
Newsflash: teenage girls have sex. Why does she need her "honor" defended? Is this the 1950's?
 
Newsflash: teenage girls have sex. Why does she need her "honor" defended? Is this the 1950's?

I agree, teenagers do have sex...but where's the respect for the father's home? He supports and feeds her and takes care of the family. He has rules in his home. He pays the bills, more than likely, takes care of her. All fathers protect their daughters. That's why they are called "daddy's little girl."

No way would I want to come home from work or whatever to find my 16 year old having sex. The couple should have been more discreet about it, and not in the parents house. The father did not allow it, it was his home, and the daughter should have respected that. She did not, and the father lost his temper.

No way would I allow my 3 boys to bring their girlfriends home and have sex....while I was in the kitchen cooking or watching TV....16 is too young! And anyhow, when they become 18, the rule still stands in my home. They can get a motel or whatever, but not in my home.
 
Would you prefer that the teens be having sex in a car somewhere? That's dangerous.

You tow the patriarchy line. He only took it "a little to far."

IMHO, you don't punish someone for being sexual beings. Don't you think that the girl was horrified enough that her father walked in on her?
 
Would you prefer that the teens be having sex in a car somewhere? That's dangerous.

You tow the patriarchy line. He only took it "a little to far."

IMHO, you don't punish someone for being sexual beings. Don't you think that the girl was horrified enough that her father walked in on her?

Teenagers will have sex, I agree. But not in my home, and I believe the father made that rule to his daughter. She should have gone somewhere else, and the boyfriend should have respected the father's wishes regarding his daughter.

Who was more "horrified", the daughter or the father, I don't know. Probably both of them. It's not OK to bring a boyfriend home, have sex, break up, bring another boyfriend home have sex with that one, and on and on....

Sex is sacred. And 16 is too young to know the difference between love and sex...it's just lust and hormones raging. Even some adults can't tell the difference.
 
Would you prefer that the teens be having sex in a car somewhere? That's dangerous.

Doesn't mean it's okay. Children are to obey the rules as long as they live under their parents' house, no matter how much they may disagree with it.

It is their house, not the daughter's.
 
That's all well and good. Can you imagine that this girl is going to want to have a relationship with this man? He's saved the sanctity of his house and destroyed his relationship with his daughter.
 
That's all well and good. Can you imagine that this girl is going to want to have a relationship with this man? He's saved the sanctity of his house and destroyed his relationship with his daughter.

(shrugs)

With every choice made, there are consequences. She made the choice to disobey the rules of the house. As a result, this happened.

If she didn't want this to happen, she shouldn't had brought her boyfriend in without their parents' knowledge. In some cases, they may be led to believe there is an intruder within the house.

It's not the first time that something like this has happened.
 
That's all well and good. Can you imagine that this girl is going to want to have a relationship with this man? He's saved the sanctity of his house and destroyed his relationship with his daughter.

She's 16. Who knows what she's going to feel in a few years? She's still a child! In a few years, she'll understand more, and yes, feel sorry she did this to her family.
 
You're blaming the girl when it was the father who shot someone? That's crazy. :crazy:
 
You are the one that brought the whole thing up by ... I quote:

sallylou said:
This dude views his daughter as his property. That's why he retaliated against a guy that "damaged" his property. What a sick man. His daughter can't get away soon enough.

His house. His rules.

Problem is... he enforced his rules the wrong way...

I means... I know I might have a room-mate in February... so my rules are: 1) Don't touch each others' brand of beer, 2) Everything in the commons is touchable, 3) No sex on the couch or in the kitchen. :rofl:

Although I wouldn't pull a gun on my future room-mate...
 
Why isn't her mother's house and her rule? After all, he's only a stepfather.

I'm astounded by the lack of compassion for this girl. Let's shame her and call her a slut.

I guess ya'll have forgotten what it's like to be a teenager. I'm sure that ya'll all made the wisest and more mature decisions when you were 16. :roll:
 
You're blaming the girl when it was the father who shot someone? That's crazy. :crazy:

No....the father should not have shot the man, but the girl was the one who did not follow the rules to begin with, and the boy did not respect the man in his house. The boy would have not gotten shot if the girl would have followed the rules he set down, and if they was so horny to have sex, go somewhere else, not in her family home!....Suppose there were other children in the home at a younger age, and walked in and caught them also?

All this would not have happened if she had followed the rules, and has to face the consequences of it all.....A very tragic happening.

No way would I allow a 16 yr. old make the rules in my home. And anyhow, I wouldn't care how old anybody was, even an adult, if they lived with me....then they follow my rules.
 
Sex at the parents' house? Bad idea.

Do it somewhere else.

Besides, the stepfather isn't the real father of the girl so I don't think he should take that much control of this over his so called stepdaughter. If she still have a real mother, let the real mother handle it then. or real father...if he is still around that is.
 
You're blaming the girl when it was the father who shot someone? That's crazy. :crazy:

Like Souggy said, he enforced it the wrong way. However, it was the daughter's bad choice that resulted in quite a severe consequence.

Like I said, she should had known better.
 
Besides, the stepfather isn't the real father of the girl so I don't think he should take that much control of this over his so called stepdaughter. If she still have a real mother, let the real mother handle it then. or real father...if he is still around that is.

It doesn't matter, the stepfather is to be viewed as an equal authority figure as the daughter's mother in the house. Just because he is not related by blood doesn't mean he should be disrespected or perceived as a lesser authority figure in the house.
 
The man had to go get for a gun from a *separate (2nd) location,* follow the boyfriend into *the street* (3rd location), where he shot the boyfriend *4 times*. Then, the man lied to 911 about how he feared for his life. Clear criminal intent with plenty of time for consideration. Prosesutors are going to have a field day with this. The guy better plea bargain.
 
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