UK Mom Fined: "Grieving Too Long" at Son's Funeral

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A grieving mother in Britain was fined $173 for spending too long at her son's coffin before it was taken away for cremation.

Terrie Rouse, 32, said her grief turned to shock when officials told her she had taken too long to say goodbye, The Daily Mail reported.

"The vicar had asked if I would like to spend a bit more time saying goodbye," she said. "I sat by the coffin for 10 minutes, telling my son how much we loved him and begging him not to be scared."

Officials at the crematorium, run by a local English council, impose an extra charge if any funeral runs over its 30-minute slot.

However, the couple's funeral directors said there was plenty of time for the next funeral which was not due to take place for another 50 minutes.

Rouse’s partner, Lee Smythe, said the fee was "sick and disgusting.""Terrie was weeping hysterically," he said. "She just wanted a few extra minutes to say goodbye to our much-loved little boy."

The couple’s son, Zane, died at five weeks from Sudden Infant Death Syndrome on April 9.

The family waited three months before they could have a funeral to allow for tests to be carried out.

"It was distressing enough having to wait for the funeral because we were left in limbo, but this has just made it all worse," Smythe said.

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Ohhhh that is SO heartbreaking! WTF?!
 
This Nanny State crap in the UK is getting worse and worse all the time. People are getting fined for so called "safety violations" like standing on a ladder to change a light bulb. WTF?

Yiz
 
:roll: have some decency, man!
 
Sad. Can't they let the mother grief for her son as long as she wants? A business like this should realize there are real people who need to mourn.
 
the only thing that is cool about the UK is the hot women thay show off their stuff
 
Sensitivity fail! Basic human decency should have made the officials think twice about this. :mad:
 
I'm shocked! Funerals in UK are only allowed to run for only 30 minutes?!

When my mother died in 1990, the funeral ran ALL DAY! From 9 am to 3 pm! I am not kidding! And then after the funeral we moved on to our house where we had a reception (food, visitors, etc) which lasted well into the late evening!
 
What happened to their comfortin' to the mother until she feels better to let it go ? This is soo heartbreakin'! :(
 
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