Sorry your links and facts are hard to follow. I sugesst you link directly to what you are trying to say. I went to the first link and could not find your $60M you spoke of.
Any way reading more of your posts I question your intent here.
Sounds like you are more against Marriage as defined by a man and a woman, in other words you are beginning to sound anti-heterosexual to me.
I am not anti anti gay. I seek a fair and balanced solution. You want to try to trash heterosexual marriage in your attempt to justify gay marriages. IMHO that greatly reduces your credibilty.
If you want to argue for gay marriage, I suggest you do it with out trashing heterosexual marriages. Otherwise you will only be talking to yourself.