What I could say to him??

Phillips

Phillips

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Deaf Nice Man email.. asking me want to chat… I said sure! We were chatting online and once on a vp. Now I felt that he is annoyance, I! He said He felt so bad that I am single mom! Which make me turn off? I told him that not worries, and I am fine! In addition, he wants move live in my state :eek: and others! Now I want to tell him that I am not interesting in him but not want to hurt his feeling huh? Bec he is very nice!! but too much for me :giggle:
 
Tell him to provide you 100 lists of "why he want to move in with you".
 
authentic said:
Tell him to provide you 100 lists of "why he want to move in with you".
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:shock: I did but enough!!!!

He want care of my two girls that never meet!!

He want care of my home and mini farm

He want take me to church every Sunday .. which i am not!

and others :eek:


I guess.. I will block him on my aim.. and ingore vp ringing too :dunno2: but I have askng question how I can block him on my blackberry pager :hmm:
 
I don't think the guy knows what he wants. You should just tell him you don't need a relationship, and you're not interested in religion, etc. He can't change you.

Or you could also play some mind games, such as pretend to be a Nigerian scammer. Tell him you're currently living in South Africa, and need money to get back home, etc. Then again, he probably would send money..:)
 
:lol: @ omegaman and Authentic's posts!!


umm ...I have to tell him truth soon! :(
 
It sounds like this Deaf man only recently emailed you?

I guess he's rushing to have a relationship rather than taking one step at a time to get to know each other slowly.

Best thing is tell him the truth.
 
~SG~ said:
It sounds like this Deaf man only recently emailed you?

I guess he's rushing to have a relationship rather than taking one step at a time to get to know each other slowly.

Best thing is tell him the truth.
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What? No, no, no, you got it all wrong! Best thing is to kill him

Just kidding!
 
oh boy that is very understanding how you feel that you not ready for relationship
and be honest is best thing i know that truth can hurt but need to be tough smile
i hope you will be ok Phillips
sound like he is desperated

for myself i don't wanted to have relationship not now maybe later don't know how i feel later oh well
 
~SG~ said:
It sounds like this Deaf man only recently emailed you?

I guess he's rushing to have a relationship rather than taking one step at a time to get to know each other slowly.

Best thing is tell him the truth.
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Yeah, there is not necessary to rush into the relationship. Do not make another mistake. Think of two girls's sake, they need to look up both of two parents to become a good term first. Step by step at one time...

I have not dating with a guy since my husband passed away. I like a guy very much, am not rush into relationship with him due to long distance relationship. We have been a good friends that I can trust with him to enjoy his company and converations. He is very sweet, brilliant and sense of humor what I need to enjoy his company.

Slowy down Phillips !!
 
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Phillips.. if that guy is really determined to be a part of your life in a fast way, do tell him to think about this and ask him is it worth it to do this?? AND I dunno if your kids will feel that way somehow if a guy came into your life all of a sudden without anything interesting about him and etc... then tell that guy to mosey on somewhere to the next lady or so... just my opinion on this... but I'm sure others will offer more advice on this...
 
If someone want to move in so fast, I think they are really desperate and they will be clinging to you.

I would run away fast!
 
I am agreeing with you all about he is too fast and rush too :dunno2: I told him that "geez i am not rush.. " .... he said he is not rush too but BS!!!

Also i am scare of him too lol!!! so I will have to tell him that I am not interesting in him sooner!!


Thanks!
 
Scared of him? Then tell him not to ever contact you again. Period.

If he does not respect your wishes, then he is not worth it. There are some guys who are really pushy and will not respect boundaries. He sounds like one of them. Dump him. And then have a good ice cream party.
 
I always thought you're married, I guess I was wrong.
 
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