Are you Pro-Life or Pro-Choice?

MilitaryGirl83 · 09-18-2006, 01:47 AM

My husband Jeremy and I am both pro-choice. Because we believe it's a woman's right to choose. Not every woman wants to be a mother or aren't ready to be a mother. In this world, there are so many unwanted children and that are not loved also. Why should bring a child in the world when you are not ready to be a mother and that it's not wanted?

Men that are prolife thinks abortion is wrong.. but the thing is.. they never experienced pregnancy and have no say in it. But there are some wonderful guys that are pro-choice and let the woman decide or discuss the options together. Good relationsips are important.

Some of my friends and relatives had an abortion and they had no regrets. They said it is the best decision for them. Go to the website I'm Not Sorry.net: Celebrating The Right To Choose.. and it's about women who is totally prochoice and had no regrets of terminationg the pregnancy. I am always behind my friends' decision and would do what I can do for them.

Both of my pregnancy is wanted and loved. I am glad I created this 2 children with my husband.

P.S. Please no BASHINGS!

Cloggy · 09-18-2006, 03:59 AM

Pro-choice!

XBGMER · 09-18-2006, 05:00 AM

I honestly tell you, i really understand what this talking about.. as for me I am strongly anti-abortions.. But depend on what kind of their situations want to have an abortion for deadly reason..

Liebling:-))) · 09-18-2006, 06:01 AM

Yes I second that, FelixKat.

I support pro-choice but I'm against if anyone who abort dozen of times when they know there're sex protection.

Angel · 09-18-2006, 06:54 AM

I'm a pro-life, and I believe in the right to live....If some people don't want to have a baby, then be smart by protecting themselves then they wouldn't have to make a decision on having an abortion...but if the mother's or the baby's life is at risk, then an abortion is okay...

I respect those who are pro-choice, but I hope to get the same respect back

Liebling:-))) · 09-18-2006, 07:01 AM

Yes I can understand, Angel but I respect every woman's choice but to me is different.

To me, I would not abort when I know baby is health or risk.... I would give baby up for an adoption if I feel that I'm unfit mother and can't give baby my love. Look around many childless married couples who want to adopt and give baby love.

Angel · 09-18-2006, 07:28 AM

Yes I agree Liebling, I was watching the news a couple of days ago about a newborn baby was found in the pond, and Ohio has this new law about unwanted mothers can drop their newborn baby off at the police station or fire department with no questions whatsoever, but a unwanted mother decide to kill her baby just to get ruid of it so no one will know, I think some young girls needs to understand that there's nothing to be scare about, and the Ohio laws are here to protect those unwanted mothers and their babies...As it explains clearly that they will not ask for their ID, or any personal questions, all they had to do was drop the newborn baby off and leave ....and btw the fire department was just down the street from where the baby was found at in the pond...So sad it had to end that way

Here's the link Dead baby girl found at Canton pond

LakeTahoe · 09-18-2006, 07:32 AM

Pro-life.

But I do agree with Liebling and ^Angel^ with some reasons.

Cheri · 09-18-2006, 07:40 AM

Used to be a pro-choice, now I'm pro-life, my reason is simple, I've seen one woman who had 4 abortions and said if she became pregnant again, would do it again. That's the idea that shows me that there are careless people out in the society who thinks abortion is the only way out out of their problems without protection, when they should be having safe sex. Is it fair to kill an unborn baby just because one doesn't want to have safe sex?

Liebling:-))) · 09-18-2006, 09:00 AM

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Originally Posted by ^Angel^

Yes I agree Liebling, I was watching the news a couple of days ago about a newborn baby was found in the pond, and Ohio has this new law about unwanted mothers can drop their newborn baby off at the police station or fire department with no questions whatsoever, but a unwanted mother decide to kill her baby just to get ruid of it so no one will know, I think some young girls needs to understand that there's nothing to be scare about, and the Ohio laws are here to protect those unwanted mothers and their babies...As it explains clearly that they will not ask for their ID, or any personal questions, all they had to do was drop the newborn baby off and leave ....and btw the fire department was just down the street from where the baby was found at in the pond...So sad it had to end that way

Here's the link Dead baby girl found at Canton pond

Yes it's the same here in Germany as well.
http://www.alldeaf.com/current-event...ous-birth.html

IslandGal · 09-18-2006, 09:31 AM

Pro-life here but I do understand if a woman has to get an abortion in order to save her life if it is too risky for her to continue with her pregnancy.

IslandGal · 09-18-2006, 09:36 AM

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Originally Posted by ^Angel^

Dead baby girl found at Canton pond

So sad

Cheri · 09-18-2006, 09:48 AM

Warning Graphics!! not suitable for children, those with heart failure, upset stomach

Human or just a fetus?

Liebling:-))) · 09-18-2006, 09:56 AM

It's terrible... Its hurt to see the pictures....

Accord German law at few years ago, we are allow to abort baby up to 12 weeks, not over 12 weeks but risk reasons is a different...

SxyPorkie · 09-18-2006, 10:09 AM

There are cons and pros in Pro life and Pro choice... i am between them...depends on situations...

rabbit · 09-18-2006, 11:25 AM

I'd say pro-life, I didn't ask to be born, and my life hasn't always been a walk-in-the-park, but I'm happy that I'm alive and I'm glad that my parents didn't abort me.

Reba · 09-18-2006, 12:12 PM

I'm pro-life.

Foxrac · 09-18-2006, 12:29 PM

Nevermind

Foxrac · 09-18-2006, 12:33 PM

I'm pro-life, women probably have rights to abortion for someone who raped them or sexual abuse, except normal life like girlfriend or wife depends on their boyfriend or husband's feeling that need have children.

gnulinuxman · 09-18-2006, 01:06 PM

I'm pro-life. Abortion=killing.

The only exception I have to this belief is if giving birth would kill the mother.

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Originally Posted by FelixKat930

Why should bring a child in the world when you are not ready to be a mother and that it's not wanted?

Because adoption is a more ethical alternative--it gives the child a chance to live in a home where they are loved.

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Originally Posted by FelixKat930

Men that are prolife thinks abortion is wrong.. but the thing is.. they never experienced pregnancy and have no say in it. But there are some wonderful guys that are pro-choice and let the woman decide or discuss the options together. Good relationsips are important.

1. Not all pro-life people are men. Many are women too. Most of my female friends are pro-life.
2. This is a very selfish statement about how men have no say in it. People shouldn't be fooling around with sex if they don't want children. That's what sex is for--having children. End of story.
3. So a good man is a man who obeys your every command? I'm as anti-chauvinist-macho-crap as most women out there, but this is ridiculous. The woman and the man should be EQUAL. Neither one should have control over the other.

jazzy · 09-19-2006, 11:12 AM

I have always be prolifer but now I am at the age where I can see if any older women who accidently got pregnant and find baby to be deformed, I would abort it since I do not feel it is fair for them to live a life with too much suffer.

My son told me not too long ago about their friend who was pegnant and found out the baby would not be born alive but it was against her father's religion belief and forced her to carry the deformed baby to full term then the baby dies right after birth. Not worth to carry for 9 months to mess up women's hormones if the child can not be alive after being born. I change my mind to give women choice for special reasons, but I am against abortion for as birth control.

Foxrac · 09-19-2006, 11:36 AM

I doubt that abortion would illegal in US, it won't happen though.

Oceanbreeze · 09-19-2006, 11:38 AM

I'm pro choice. I believe in a woman's right to choose.

jazzy · 09-19-2006, 11:40 AM

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Originally Posted by volcomskatz

I doubt that abortion would illegal in US, it won't happen though.

I do not want to bring those old days back, women went to illegal abortion place and ended up dying themselves from faulty abortion.

Oceanbreeze · 09-19-2006, 11:49 AM

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Originally Posted by jazzy

I do not want to bring those old days back, women went to illegal abortion place and ended up dying themselves from faulty abortion.

Absolutely!

Foxrac · 09-19-2006, 11:53 AM

I'm sure that women would upset if happen when ban on abortion but only 2 states don't accept Roe vs. Wade.

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State abortion bans seeking to overturn Roe v. Wade
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South Dakota

Main article: Women's Health and Human Life Protection Act

On February 24, 2006, the South Dakota State Legislature passed a bill that was signed into law by Governor Mike Rounds on March 6, 2006. The law purports to make performing all abortions a felony, including those for pregnancies resulting from rape and incest. The bill does make an exception for a woman's health, but also directs the physician to make a resonable effort to save both mother and child. Should he fail to save the child (that is, if the child’s death is an unintended consequence of saving the mother), the doctor will not be prosecuted. The bill is worded as follows:

The bill states in Section 4:

"No licensed physician who performs a medical procedure designed or intended to prevent the death of a pregnant mother is guilty of violating section 2 of this Act." [5] Section 2 is the text of the bill that bans abortions, given below.

Section 4 continues:

"However, the physician shall make reasonable medical efforts under the circumstances to preserve both the life of the mother and the life of her unborn child in a manner consistent with conventional medical practice. Medical treatment provided to the mother by a licensed physician which results in the accidental or unintentional injury or death to the unborn child is not a violation of this statute." [6]

The bill states in Section 2 (referenced in the wording of Section 4):

"No person may knowingly administer to, prescribe for, or procure for, or sell to any pregnant woman any medicine, drug, or other substance with the specific intent of causing or abetting the termination of the life of an unborn human being. No person may knowingly use or employ any instrument or procedure upon a pregnant woman with the specific intent of causing or abetting the termination of the life of an unborn human being." [7]

Although the health of the mother is protected, doctors will be prosecuted for any other reason. Its sponsors hope that a court challenge of the law will provide a vehicle that will allow the Supreme Court to reconsider and overturn Roe.
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Mississippi

Mississippi’s House Public Health Committee voted on February 27, 2006, to approve a ban on abortion similar to South Dakota’s. The Mississippi bill could be voted on in the full State House the following week, and if approved, move on to the State Senate. Governor Haley Barbour told reporters that he would probably sign the bill into law if it makes it to his desk, though said he would prefer it to have an exception for rape and incest. Mississippi already had some of the strictest state abortion laws, requiring a 24-hour waiting period and counseling for all abortions, and the notification of both parents for minors who seek the procedure.

Roe v. Wade - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Foxrac · 09-19-2006, 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by jazzy

I do not want to bring those old days back, women went to illegal abortion place and ended up dying themselves from faulty abortion.

I'm sure that you are confused with sentence.

I said that I don't think that abortion would illegal and won't happen for long time.

Oceanbreeze · 09-19-2006, 11:57 AM

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Originally Posted by volcomskatz

09-18-2006, 01:47 AM	#1 (permalink)
MilitaryGirl83 ~I support our troops~ Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: My heart belongs to the beach~ Posts: 3,548	Are you Pro-Life or Pro-Choice? My husband Jeremy and I am both pro-choice. Because we believe it's a woman's right to choose. Not every woman wants to be a mother or aren't ready to be a mother. In this world, there are so many unwanted children and that are not loved also. Why should bring a child in the world when you are not ready to be a mother and that it's not wanted? Men that are prolife thinks abortion is wrong.. but the thing is.. they never experienced pregnancy and have no say in it. But there are some wonderful guys that are pro-choice and let the woman decide or discuss the options together. Good relationsips are important. Some of my friends and relatives had an abortion and they had no regrets. They said it is the best decision for them. Go to the website I'm Not Sorry.net: Celebrating The Right To Choose.. and it's about women who is totally prochoice and had no regrets of terminationg the pregnancy. I am always behind my friends' decision and would do what I can do for them. Both of my pregnancy is wanted and loved. I am glad I created this 2 children with my husband. P.S. Please no BASHINGS! __________________ ~My Heart is taken by a soldier~ <3 <3 <3

09-18-2006, 06:01 AM	#4 (permalink)
Liebling:-))) My 3 darling princesses Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Germany Posts: 27,054	Yes I second that, FelixKat. I support pro-choice but I'm against if anyone who abort dozen of times when they know there're sex protection. __________________

09-18-2006, 06:54 AM	#5 (permalink)
Angel ♥"Concrete Angel"♥ Join Date: Nov 2003 Posts: 19,088	I'm a pro-life, and I believe in the right to live....If some people don't want to have a baby, then be smart by protecting themselves then they wouldn't have to make a decision on having an abortion...but if the mother's or the baby's life is at risk, then an abortion is okay... I respect those who are pro-choice, but I hope to get the same respect back __________________ "When we do the best we can, we never know what miracle is brought in our life, OR in the life of another." ~ Helen Keller

09-18-2006, 07:01 AM	#6 (permalink)
Liebling:-))) My 3 darling princesses Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Germany Posts: 27,054	Yes I can understand, Angel but I respect every woman's choice but to me is different. To me, I would not abort when I know baby is health or risk.... I would give baby up for an adoption if I feel that I'm unfit mother and can't give baby my love. Look around many childless married couples who want to adopt and give baby love. __________________

09-18-2006, 07:28 AM	#7 (permalink)
Angel ♥"Concrete Angel"♥ Join Date: Nov 2003 Posts: 19,088	Yes I agree Liebling, I was watching the news a couple of days ago about a newborn baby was found in the pond, and Ohio has this new law about unwanted mothers can drop their newborn baby off at the police station or fire department with no questions whatsoever, but a unwanted mother decide to kill her baby just to get ruid of it so no one will know, I think some young girls needs to understand that there's nothing to be scare about, and the Ohio laws are here to protect those unwanted mothers and their babies...As it explains clearly that they will not ask for their ID, or any personal questions, all they had to do was drop the newborn baby off and leave ....and btw the fire department was just down the street from where the baby was found at in the pond...So sad it had to end that way Here's the link Dead baby girl found at Canton pond __________________ "When we do the best we can, we never know what miracle is brought in our life, OR in the life of another." ~ Helen Keller Last edited by Angel; 09-18-2006 at 07:41 AM. Reason: add a link

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09-18-2006, 03:59 AM	#2 (permalink)
Cloggy Up to a loud future ! Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Norway Posts: 3,794 Blog Entries: 5	Pro-choice!

09-18-2006, 05:00 AM	#3 (permalink)
XBGMER Registered User Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 3,458	I honestly tell you, i really understand what this talking about.. as for me I am strongly anti-abortions.. But depend on what kind of their situations want to have an abortion for deadly reason..

09-18-2006, 07:32 AM	#8 (permalink)
LakeTahoe ~~JUST ME!!~~ Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Lost somewhere on the Earth! Posts: 12,306	Pro-life. But I do agree with Liebling and ^Angel^ with some reasons. __________________ MERRY CHRISTMAS!

09-18-2006, 07:40 AM	#9 (permalink)
Cheri Premium Member Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Ohio Posts: 21,074	Used to be a pro-choice, now I'm pro-life, my reason is simple, I've seen one woman who had 4 abortions and said if she became pregnant again, would do it again. That's the idea that shows me that there are careless people out in the society who thinks abortion is the only way out out of their problems without protection, when they should be having safe sex. Is it fair to kill an unborn baby just because one doesn't want to have safe sex? __________________

09-18-2006, 09:31 AM	#11 (permalink)
IslandGal Hi ya! Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Sunshine State Posts: 4,323	Pro-life here but I do understand if a woman has to get an abortion in order to save her life if it is too risky for her to continue with her pregnancy.

09-18-2006, 09:48 AM	#13 (permalink)
Cheri Premium Member Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Ohio Posts: 21,074	Warning Graphics!! not suitable for children, those with heart failure, upset stomach Human or just a fetus? __________________

09-18-2006, 09:56 AM	#14 (permalink)
Liebling:-))) My 3 darling princesses Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Germany Posts: 27,054	It's terrible... Its hurt to see the pictures.... Accord German law at few years ago, we are allow to abort baby up to 12 weeks, not over 12 weeks but risk reasons is a different... __________________

09-18-2006, 10:09 AM	#15 (permalink)
SxyPorkie SxyPorkie Join Date: May 2006 Location: Southern California Posts: 3,095	There are cons and pros in Pro life and Pro choice... i am between them...depends on situations... __________________ Life Goes On!!

09-18-2006, 11:25 AM	#16 (permalink)
rabbit Esoteric Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Massachusetts. Posts: 565	I'd say pro-life, I didn't ask to be born, and my life hasn't always been a walk-in-the-park, but I'm happy that I'm alive and I'm glad that my parents didn't abort me. __________________ An eye for an eye leaves the whole world blind.

09-18-2006, 12:12 PM	#17 (permalink)
Reba Premium Member Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 17,287	I'm pro-life.

09-18-2006, 12:29 PM	#18 (permalink)
Foxrac o_O Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 14,350	Nevermind __________________ God bless America

09-18-2006, 12:33 PM	#19 (permalink)
Foxrac o_O Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 14,350	I'm pro-life, women probably have rights to abortion for someone who raped them or sexual abuse, except normal life like girlfriend or wife depends on their boyfriend or husband's feeling that need have children. __________________ God bless America

09-19-2006, 11:12 AM	#21 (permalink)
jazzy Registered User Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 3,196	I have always be prolifer but now I am at the age where I can see if any older women who accidently got pregnant and find baby to be deformed, I would abort it since I do not feel it is fair for them to live a life with too much suffer. My son told me not too long ago about their friend who was pegnant and found out the baby would not be born alive but it was against her father's religion belief and forced her to carry the deformed baby to full term then the baby dies right after birth. Not worth to carry for 9 months to mess up women's hormones if the child can not be alive after being born. I change my mind to give women choice for special reasons, but I am against abortion for as birth control. __________________

09-19-2006, 11:36 AM	#22 (permalink)
Foxrac o_O Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 14,350	I doubt that abortion would illegal in US, it won't happen though.

09-19-2006, 11:38 AM	#23 (permalink)
Oceanbreeze Happy Holidays to all! Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: S. FL Posts: 6,850	I'm pro choice. I believe in a woman's right to choose. __________________ "And I don't want the world to see me 'Cause I don't think that they'd understand When everything's made to be broken I just want you to know who I am" ~Goo Goo Dolls Iris