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Okay so i have this straight friend who i have been crushin on for a few years. He is pretty cute. So a while back we were talking and amoungst telling me his size and asking what i like to do and how i do it he said he wants to watch me. He wants to watch me.... um..... get it on with another guy. I told him the other guy, (like i have one whatever LOL), would most likely want him to join in too but that i am not into 3 ways. He said no he just wants to watch. I said i can bring a gay porn over and we can watch it together. He said he has already done that but he wants to watch me in person. A group of us including him was at a restaurant and he suggested that i ask the waiter, who we knew was gay, if he would because the waiter is cute..... um i cannot figure this one out. Why want to watch me, in person do something but not want one on one time with me. I have been with straight guys before i just can't figure this dude out!!
 
Maybe deep inside, he is really curious to try it with other men and wants to see if he would go for it after watching sex acts live (for lack of better word). Maybe he doesnt want to act on it until after he sees other men get it on and maybe he chose u cuz he is comfortable with you?

It must be a curiosity thing. I have known some guys who have followed their curiosities and then afterwards they say they know they are either gay or straight.

Up to you if u feel comfortable with that. If not, then u can refer him to another couple who enjoys being watched. LOL!:giggle:

Hope that makes sense. If not, then disregard my suggestions. :)
 
No idea why he want watch and me couldn't help but ...

Don't let him watch you and if he want then could join with you guy :giggle:
 
Ya i know it is weird. I think he is curious but cannot bring himself to make that leap. And he will put his hand on my back and say, "i want to see how good you can arch your back" LMAO WHAT????? I have been with a few straight guys and they have all remained straight after, just wanted to try it out, or heard gay men do certain things great! LOL
 
Is it hot in here or is it me? :giggle: j/k

Just like how Shel says, maybe he is curious, and once he sees you live in action it might be a turn-on for him and would want you next to himself, Who knows only this guy would know what's in that head of his. ;)
 
It DEFINITELY sounds like he's curious. Of course, I've always been one of those people who believe that we're ALL curious about "the other side", from time to time. I, myself, have wondered what it would be like to be with a woman (well, until I finally was, a few years ago!), and after trying it, it only re-affirmed for me what I already knew... that I preferred being with guys.

Call me crazy, but I think a certain amount of curiosity is healthy. A lot of my straight male friends are CONSTANTLY asking me questions about my sexuality, some questions being very graphic. I think it's cute, really. I don't think it makes them gay, of course. Heck, even if they "tried" gay sex once or twice, I don't think that would "make" them gay, unless they, themselves, identified as such.

And, Cheri... it's not just you. It IS hot in here, LOL!
 
InTheGenes said:
It DEFINITELY sounds like he's curious. Of course, I've always been one of those people who believe that we're ALL curious about "the other side", from time to time. I, myself, have wondered what it would be like to be with a woman (well, until I finally was, a few years ago!), and after trying it, it only re-affirmed for me what I already knew... that I preferred being with guys.

Call me crazy, but I think a certain amount of curiosity is healthy. A lot of my straight male friends are CONSTANTLY asking me questions about my sexuality, some questions being very graphic. I think it's cute, really. I don't think it makes them gay, of course. Heck, even if they "tried" gay sex once or twice, I don't think that would "make" them gay, unless they, themselves, identified as such.

And, Cheri... it's not just you. It IS hot in here, LOL!
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I don't have curiosity about women, they don't really interest women. When straight men ask questions i try to be delicate. Not go too far so they can be educated and not offended. If they start taking it there though i will answer how they ask. A lot of guys ask strange questions and some that make me think they are thinking about it. One guy asked me over and over about dicks and what i liked about them etc... and asked about black men, (the myth is just that, a myth).
I have been with several straight men too and i don't think they are gay or even bi. They just wanted to try something different. They approach me about it though, i never approach them. Once the try, they usually come back for seconds... or more! LOL come knockin at my door at 2:00 am and act like they just want to "talk" or "chill" and then they start. I let them if that makes them feel better. The ones that alway make me laugh are when they come over in the middle of the day and take two sips of a beer say how drunk they are and then suddenly they are all over me! Yeah because those two little sips really made you drunk. But i guess that is what they need to make themselves feel comfortable. Ah this was years ago though. Blah....
 
i agree with some of aders here

i am sure that he is very curious what men do in bed or whatever cuz he is straight and wonder what gay men do or whatever

gays can do everything smile
 
Well i can tell him that, but he wants to watch. The other thing is i offered to let him see a gay porn, he said he already has done that and wants to see in person. In particular me!
 
Kind of sounds like he's on a slippery slope towards Kingdom of Fabulousness. I've heard of "straights who were just curious/bi-curious" and they went on to have boyfriends after that. Then again maybe not. One of my friends from way back then identified as straight but gee, he sure liked to ask for(or sometimes not even that..) sexual favors from me. I did think he was one of those "in denial" but now he's all married n' kidded up so who knows.

Then again.. I get hit on by married men semi-regularly. That never ceases to surprise me. Most of them say they are straight, "just like to have fun with men time to time..". I used to know a man who had a regular who would visit him every time his wife had her period..

People sure come in all kinds..
 
Umm... watch? What for?

What you do is your own business.
 
Voyeurism is a popular fetish. It can be either sexual or just sheer curiosity. Ever watched the sex shows on HBO on the "wacky sex stuff those foreigners do!" It can be like that or.. sexual porn movies which turn on couples. Others just take it one step further and watch the real thing, live.
 
A lot of my straight male friends are CONSTANTLY asking me questions about my sexuality,
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I got that too when I first came out to my friends.
 
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