all of my siblings got married before they turned 18 and divorced by 20. I m the only one who didnt get married till 30's. I thought best to wait and i was ready.. but my soon to be ex hubby was controlling and didnt defend me when it come to my pets so its over! I cant have someone tell me what to do with my life and things. I am an adult? I am not a kid? sheesh. I am very independent and am proud of it.
Communication is very important. Respect, Equality, SHARE everything (not hide) BE LOVABLE! spend time together and not play video games all times?
i agree marriage is just a piece of paper and last name? I think its better to just live together for few years and if you both are ready then go for it.. my sister lived together with her bf for 8 yrs.. then finally got married and they are still married to this day.. 13 yrs now..
I did asked my soon to be ex husband if we could live together and he said God wouldnt like that? The same goes for sex - cant do that cuz God wont like it but now I know why.. sheesh! :roll: he is too close-minded when it come to things like that. I like if the guy is openminded .. Anyway it takes two to tango.. both sides .. not only one sided like my marriage was.. everything have to be about him.. NO more.. where is my respect? Love? jeez.. I guess he didnt want to be alone... and doesnt know what love means.. :roll: