Ok the small deaf does not associate often with other deaf members of the Deaf community, and have been mainstreamed or never attended a school for the Deaf and for the big Deaf people have a strong deaf identity by having alot of Deaf pride in them and they have attended schools or programs for the Deaf, they are a member of the Deaf Community and more often rather to associate with other deaf than hearing people...
I always wondered if a late-deafened person could become a member of the Deaf community. Surely someone who loses their hearing in their 20s or 30s wouldn't have attended a school for the Deaf or had many associations with Deaf people. I'm not being snarky here but really curious.
I've got a question about Deaf and deaf as well... how strict is the use of lower-case/upper-case D's when writing the word "deaf"? Do you always make sure you use the right case? And when reading do you automatically know what is being talked about when you see the word "deaf" or "Deaf"? Because when I'm reading I read deaf as a state of not hearing almost always, and then realize that they could be talking about Deaf culture and so I have to go back and see what the case on the "D" is.
Of course a late-deaf person could become a member of the Deaf Community, but fiting in?, I'm not so sure about that, afterall I had tried to become a member at a Deaf club here in Cleveland and I was judge upon, simple because I mainstreamed at a public school, never attended a school for the Deaf, and also I sign SEE not ASL, and some of them did avoid talking to me...so I felt I wasn't welcome there....I guess it's depends on where you go...
Interesting. Excluding people that are the same. Very confusing, doesn't make sense.