It is around 3 years. Not every child will progress to the same standard, and language develops throughout the childhood in any case, but most people agree that 3 years is one of the most standardised 'critical periods' to have. Bear in mind though that children who progress well through this early stage may still have problems later on when dealing with more advanced language, but this will become apparent as it happens. If you really are concerned, I would seek out a professional's advice, as well as investing in books on the subject - some are mostly geared up for students studying the topic, but I wouldn't shy away from this. If anything it might give you a better idea of what's going on.
Culture and other factors do play a part, so this makes it a difficult thing to define, but I wouldn't really concern yourself too much with the fear of making the period work... if anything, pressure on the parent to help the child makes things worse.
To take my case as an example: I was born deaf, but wasn't diagnosed until the age of 4. This meant I lost out on some critical moments for my language development, and I was behind all of my peers at the early stages of schooling too. However, I was lucky and I was given a speech therapist who helped me with the key sounds of language: ah, ee, oo, ay and so on. Without this, yes, I probably would have had trouble, but I am now on the same level (if not higher) than my peers now as a result of the input I had from different people. My best advice for you to try and ensure that your child doesn't get left behind is to encourage reading - I read a lot as a child, particularly from the age 8 upwards, and I was beyond my peers again in reading skill. Reading is often easier for HOH students (or so I found) and it made things a lot easier for me. I had a better understanding of grammar, language and pretty much everything else. So all is not lost if you cannot get this resolved before the age of 3 years!