illuminator
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Hi everyone,
I've been dating a girl who is HOH, it's going slow but it's going in the right direction. I was just curious on some output from women who are deaf or HOH for the following...
....I realize that a lot of you may have had a rough past/childhood dealing with ignorant idiots and such, and I am sure those experiences may have shaped your perspective as you grew up such as trust, security, etc.
I was wondering, do you like some elements of surprise from your guy or do you prefer to know the full map? For instance, I understand that in deaf culture, when they use ASL....literally everything is communicated, put in the open and laid out. It establishes, trust, respect, etc.
In a relationship, of course small elements of mystery surprises and stuff fuel the interest level between the couple. If you lay everything down, and everything is expected...it could start to get lame. Would you appreciate the former? Or would it make it you feel uncomfortable?
Feel free to toss out any of your thoughts!
Thanks,
I've been dating a girl who is HOH, it's going slow but it's going in the right direction. I was just curious on some output from women who are deaf or HOH for the following...
....I realize that a lot of you may have had a rough past/childhood dealing with ignorant idiots and such, and I am sure those experiences may have shaped your perspective as you grew up such as trust, security, etc.
I was wondering, do you like some elements of surprise from your guy or do you prefer to know the full map? For instance, I understand that in deaf culture, when they use ASL....literally everything is communicated, put in the open and laid out. It establishes, trust, respect, etc.
In a relationship, of course small elements of mystery surprises and stuff fuel the interest level between the couple. If you lay everything down, and everything is expected...it could start to get lame. Would you appreciate the former? Or would it make it you feel uncomfortable?
Feel free to toss out any of your thoughts!
Thanks,