I am new here Hello everyone!!
I have a question that I need answered because I donot wish to mess this up. I have had a hearing problem for most of my life. I am partialy deaf in my left ear but all my life I have managed with the peoblem in the hearing world. Most of the people I know don't know about it. Anyway there is a meeting I attend weekly and there is a girl there who sits by her self, ( this is a hearing meeting), she sometimes has a guy sitting next to her and seems that she was with that person, or so I thought. Two days ago the meeting was not as crouded and there she was sitting by herself in the back of the meeting. I have noticed her in every meeting and we have often made eye contact. This time with her sitting alone everytime I looked back at her she would tern her head slightly to one side and smile at me. OK! Iam shy and alittle slow with introductions. BUT before the meeting was over I went back and sat next to her and introduced myself. She introduced herself to me and ask if I could give her a ride home if she paid me. I responded with not for cash but for her Phone number so I mite call on her. She smiled in delight and gave me her number. I could tell by the way she was speeking that she was deaf. and at one point she ask me if I could lip read and I said some what as I use it myself with my bad ear.
Now to the question at hand, Since I have lived all my life in the hearing world and donot wish to hurt her feelings or make her feel out of place or most of all affend her as I do like the girl and wish to date her. I am lost as to where to take her?????????????
HELP!
I have a question that I need answered because I donot wish to mess this up. I have had a hearing problem for most of my life. I am partialy deaf in my left ear but all my life I have managed with the peoblem in the hearing world. Most of the people I know don't know about it. Anyway there is a meeting I attend weekly and there is a girl there who sits by her self, ( this is a hearing meeting), she sometimes has a guy sitting next to her and seems that she was with that person, or so I thought. Two days ago the meeting was not as crouded and there she was sitting by herself in the back of the meeting. I have noticed her in every meeting and we have often made eye contact. This time with her sitting alone everytime I looked back at her she would tern her head slightly to one side and smile at me. OK! Iam shy and alittle slow with introductions. BUT before the meeting was over I went back and sat next to her and introduced myself. She introduced herself to me and ask if I could give her a ride home if she paid me. I responded with not for cash but for her Phone number so I mite call on her. She smiled in delight and gave me her number. I could tell by the way she was speeking that she was deaf. and at one point she ask me if I could lip read and I said some what as I use it myself with my bad ear.
Now to the question at hand, Since I have lived all my life in the hearing world and donot wish to hurt her feelings or make her feel out of place or most of all affend her as I do like the girl and wish to date her. I am lost as to where to take her?????????????
HELP!