TheWriteAlex
Anyone who criticizes my closed captions or tries to turn them off gets bitch slapped hardcore. Any attempt to put down or disallow captions/subtitles to a hoh/deaf person is a decidedly audist mentality.
It's not even "audist mentality",
it is simply boorish rudeness and lack of compassion
and simple lack of consideration to other disabilities needs.
Such could be be ANY form of special needs that is so rudely dismissed
as Hannah Louise needs are,
and by doing this the person who does that is simply an
insensitive jerk, is all.
Hannah louise
But anyways, I have barely any condfidence and then my older sister (shes 16, Im 14)says this to me. To make matters worse neither my dad or mummy didn't back me up on this.
Now sweetheart,
this is very serious that you don't have your parents support and I am very sorry and even outraged about that.
You should have your parents back on this!!!
no ifs or buts!!
No wonder you have low self esteem - why should you if everybody is telling you, indirectly, you don't matter!
Hannah louise, YOU DO MATTER, and your hearing loss comes first!!!
Your parents and your siblings are wrong!
Why, do you think, the world is slowly more and more accommodating to the disabled, not the other way around?
because we DO matter!
why there are laws, rules and regulations in workplaces for disabled that protect their rights? why the employer is required to build a ramp for
a wheelchair or supply a ASL translator?
because a law or other regulations says we do matter.
That means, if YOU have any degree of disability, YOU need to be accommodated, not the able bodied.
Why? because an average bumpkins like - and here I apologize for comparison, it's just to get the point across - like your parents or your sisters- doesn't understand the intricacies involved with certain disabilities, that's why.
That's why smart and wise people who do understand - doctors, lawyers, etc - composed an implemented laws etc to protect someone like you from them bumpkins.
Now you see why you have to believe in yourself and your rights as HoH person?
You DO have rights. You DO know better.
You just need to stand up for yourself from now on.
The change in your family structure will not come overnight, but if you persist, it will come.
For you to succeed, I would recommend to get in touch with some good
psychologist or psychiatrist who would help you to regain your self- esteem.
At the same time, I would join some Deaf and HoH group in your area, who will teach you all they know what it is like to be 'defensive' hearing impaired person, and how to teach your famly that you are a force to be reckoned with!
You can do it!
Fuzzy