should I tell him?

[ella]

I known this guy whose been my friend for a year. I recently been realizing i like him. But i don't know how he sees me ,and its really frustrating because im scared to tell him. I don't want to feel akward if he doesn't like me that way nor do i want to ruin a friendship. He does compliment me a lot and he did tell him that i'm pretty in a unique way. I sometimes feel like hes to perfect for me for example hes non judgemental but hes got the funniest personality. I have been having recuring dreams of me telling him i have to tell him something ,and it doesn't go any farther. I'm just scared if i tell him hes going to have that stupid grin/half smile on his face and not say anything because hes either shocked or unsure what to say.

 

[Gemtun]

I known this guy whose been my friend for a year. I recently been realizing i like him. But i don't know how he sees me ,and its really frustrating because im scared to tell him. I don't want to feel akward if he doesn't like me that way nor do i want to ruin a friendship. He does compliment me a lot and he did tell him that i'm pretty in a unique way. I sometimes feel like hes to perfect for me for example hes non judgemental but hes got the funniest personality. I have been having recuring dreams of me telling him i have to tell him something ,and it doesn't go any farther. I'm just scared if i tell him hes going to have that stupid grin/half smile on his face and not say anything because hes either shocked or unsure what to say.

Either take risk or dont - if you dont, you ll have regrets or whatifs - if you do, you will be glad that you did, regardless of his reaction because it is worth taking a risk for

 

[Peachy Lady]

Either take risk or dont - if you dont, you ll have regrets or whatifs - if you do, you will be glad that you did, regardless of his reaction because it is worth taking a risk for

That's a really good advice, Gemtun! Ella, how would he know if you never tell him? Maybe he feels that way for you too, but haven't had guts yet to approach u about this? Let us know how it goes...smile!

 

[The*Empress]

maybe if you flirt with him more...
dress sexy enough with low cut shirt and short.
invite him over to your place, and wrap a towel around you
and let him see you.
and hug him more often...
make him horny for you....

and you say this...

"I like your hair, your shirt, your pant, are you wearing cologne, you
smell so good, I wanna lick ya, cause ya seem to taste good,
nice eyes you have, do you have hairy chest?"

then maybe he will get the message.... :P

 

[ella]

maybe if you flirt with him more...
dress sexy enough with low cut shirt and short.
invite him over to your place, and wrap a towel around you
and let him see you.
and hug him more often...
make him horny for you....

and you say this...

"I like your hair, your shirt, your pant, are you wearing cologne, you
smell so good, I wanna lick ya, cause ya seem to taste good,
nice eyes you have, do you have hairy chest?"

then maybe he will get the message.... :P

im not a slut

but thanks everyone else for the advice

 

[Liza]

Just be truthful with him, ella, as well as be yourself - you said he's nonjudgmental. Go for it. Otherwise you will be wondering for the rest of your life.