If I was his wife, gf or fiancee ?
There are counselor he can talk to, beside telling women his plms with me over the internet...Why can't he talk to me about his feelings to me, how he feels about me or what is bothering him about me, But instead he told two women his plms with me and here I'am sitting here not knowing about it and then he got the gut to tell me what they thoughts of me, these ladies were wrong about me, they don't even know what's going on between me and him and they gave him the wrong ideas and wrong advises to him about me, he told them negatives stuff about me that we'ren't true, how am I suppose to know how he feels or what's bothering him when he tells them his plms with me, unbeknown to me dumbfounded had no ideas what was his plms is and I felt stupid...
Were you naggin' on him about some things ? Some men don't like women to nag on their husbands/bf/or financee. Some times, it can happen to some men when they need to talk to someone else instead of his lover/or wife/or fiance because, of the arguments or naggin'. It could be other reasons as well.
How can anyone helps someone's plms over the internet, it turned out to be a real nightmares for me and I was shocked, whatever someone told him about me, he stupidity thinks they're totally right about me, I was like huh ? Wait a minutes, they don't know anything about me nor know anything about him in real life, all they knows negatives stuff about me he told them, after all the wonderful things I have done for him, cleaning, cooking and doing laundry for him, and do some errands for him and grocery shopping for him, and what do I get, No Appreciations, by telling these ladies or this lady negatives stuff about me, I'am ashame of him for what he done to me...
And you know what I got attacked by this lady, she told alots of people about me, because of his negatives mouth, this lady thinks I'am a bad woman and he's a great guy, what is he trying to do make people looks down me and make him looks good, that's being two faced to people...
I don't trusted the Internet people they gave him the wrong ideas what they thinks of me whatever he told them about me, he lied to them that I was controlling him, I've never controls anyone in my life, because I do not come from a controlling family, he learned to controls by his ex, now he told two ladies that I was controlling him ..huh ? That wasn't true!
A man or a woman with a Verbal Abusive mouth lies, twisted things around on people, that what he did to me, My sister was in a very bad marriage, that man wants to controls her, he hurted her, verbalized abusively lied to people about my sister, guess what he came from a very bad abusive family, my sister had to get out of the marriage, before it too late, my sister was losing all her hair, under stressed, she had a roughs life with that man...
When he told the lady about me and guess what this lady did she went in the DeafChat and stabbed me in the back telling people I give him no love, no sex and that I was controlling him, he twisted on me and that lady, Yes she did immatures stuff in the mainroom in front of everybody about me and she private chat many people about me and they sided with her and attacked me in the mainroom, this is sick and childish...
That lady whined about me, while I told her to stop and that's enough, she keeps it going going going on on on about me what he told her about me, this is Cruels, very Cruels and Everybody from the net thinks they knows everybody by heart, bullllllllcraps they do nots know what going on over the other side of the Mountain about anyone's relationship, Do you thinks I would buys someone negative stories over the chatroom and believed it ? Nahhhh never, they just looks for Attention and Pity from others, poor me she did this to me or he did this to me, oh poor me and getting everybody to take her or his side against me, this very sick...
Actually I don't like to go in the DeafChat, which it's for the immatures to go to , but I don't go there alots but when I did and I got attacked, they spyed on me for him and tells him everything I said, but excuse me he brought it all up about me in the mainroom so did that lady too all those time I didn't know what they'd done to me, Where's my freedom of speech when they can backstabs me in the room using my sn, before I got the computer last Saturday and had it hooked up Sunday, I just got it and I had no ideas he had been telling a bunches of trashy stuff about me and my family to people in the mainroom, this is awful...
I don't do that to him like that, yes he has alots of plms in his life, but I'm not gonna says it...and that lady he talks to had alots of plms in her life too, it did no good but ruining my life...
Ofc, he can enjoy at his own time but talking about me causing alots of heartaches for me, he did not tells it straight to these people about me, he twisted on me, after all I've done many great things for him ...my family did the same too...Why he turns his back on me and my family, it makes no sense to do that to innocent people like us...
When you says unless he touches someone, that's deafcultures way of thinking, I disagree, because he told me it's the possiblities he's in the what with this lady and If he's in the marriage or engaged or has a girlfriend relationship with me, for him to be talking to a ladies is what destroy our relationship, she turns his head over to her instead of me, how I know well when I was in DeafChat talking sweetly to him and that lady private chat him whining about me and she turns his head toward her instead of me, how I know she pc him I walks in his room and caughted him talking to her in the pc and that lady didn't like it that I talks sweetly to him ..Now you tell me it sounded like they two are up to something...
I can totally understand your position here, some people just need to butt out of other people's relationship. I've been there before myself, I've had someone who spread many false assumptions about me that wasn't no where near the truth. If your husband want to believe those women on the internet, then he is a fool for believing them, because he should know the real you, because he lives with you, been with you, and know you. There are multitudes of people that contradict themselves by their behavior towards others, those people like that have no life of their own, but go their way ruining someone's else life. Just leave it to God while you wait, because what comes around will come around. Wish you the best of luck, hang in there and be strong. 
, he's aren't worth it hon....Time to take the trash out and dump it 
