Marriage... Divorce or Death?

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50% of all marriages end in divorce... others end in death.

Which would you rather do to end a marriage... divorce or die? ;)
 
unless someone dies just before getting divorced. :giggle:

i would rather divorce than dying....
 
VamPyroX said:
50% of all marriages end in divorce... others end in death.

Which would you rather do to end a marriage... divorce or die? ;)
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It depends on how the marriage is. If the marriage is in shambles ie; abusive, violent, at danger, so and on - It'd be preferable to divorce and to survive. If a marriage is at it's greatest high, then "death us part" should be the main objective. Of course, everyone knows that a marriage has it's ups and downs. It's part of life having to encounter with ups and downs but it doesn't mean one should immediately divorce. There's a reason for kissing and making up.

VamPyroX said:
Bingo! So, a person who is truly willing to avoid divorce will rather die. :)
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Yes, We all will die one way or other. So, in another word - If one is in a marriage that turns for the worse and would rather to die than to avoid divorce is putting a great deal of hardship on his/her self as a whole.
 
My grandparents were married 59 years...just a few months shy of their 60th anniversity, my grandmother passed away. A few months later my grandfather died from heart complications. We all know he died of a broken heart.

I hope to find someone, when I'm ready, who will stay with me until the end - until death do us part.
 
VamPyroX said:
50% of all marriages end in divorce... others end in death.

Which would you rather do to end a marriage... divorce or die? ;)
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When my husband died in 2005, I was totally devastated. I had been divorced before, and it didn't hurt nearly as much because it came in stages. My feelings for my ex were already pretty much dead by the time we split. But my late husband and I were still on our honeymoon and everything in my kid's and my life centered around him. It totally devastated our finances, I lost the house, the truck, and you name it. My kids went crazy with depression and confusion. It was just so final and there were no fixes to the mess that was left. We didn't even have insurance after he died, and we still don't. It changed everything on top of breaking my heart.
 
Jolie_77 said:
It depends on how the marriage is. If the marriage is in shambles ie; abusive, violent, at danger, so and on - It'd be preferable to divorce and to survive. If a marriage is at it's greatest high, then "death us part" should be the main objective. Of course, everyone knows that a marriage has it's ups and downs. It's part of life having to encounter with ups and downs but it doesn't mean one should immediately divorce. There's a reason for kissing and making up.



Yes, We all will die one way or other. So, in another word - If one is in a marriage that turns for the worse and would rather to die than to avoid divorce is putting a great deal of hardship on his/her self as a whole.
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I am with u. I have been divorced and I wouldnt wish death on my ex hubby just to end the marriage. My daughter needs her daddy. Of course, I dont want to die young!!! I have too much to live for!
 
dreamchaser said:
When my husband died in 2005, I was totally devastated. I had been divorced before, and it didn't hurt nearly as much because it came in stages. My feelings for my ex were already pretty much dead by the time we split. But my late husband and I were still on our honeymoon and everything in my kid's and my life centered around him. It totally devastated our finances, I lost the house, the truck, and you name it. My kids went crazy with depression and confusion. It was just so final and there were no fixes to the mess that was left. We didn't even have insurance after he died, and we still don't. It changed everything on top of breaking my heart.
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I'm so sorry you had to go through that and I would be lying if I said that I understand which I don't as I haven't experienced that as yet. :hug:
 
shel90 said:
I am with u. I have been divorced and I wouldnt wish death on my ex hubby just to end the marriage. My daughter needs her daddy. Of course, I dont want to die young!!! I have too much to live for!
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*nodding in agreement* I wouldn't wish death on my ex-husband too and for anyone else as well.
 
That's good point!

Jolie_77 said:
It depends on how the marriage is. If the marriage is in shambles ie; abusive, violent, at danger, so and on - It'd be preferable to divorce and to survive. If a marriage is at it's greatest high, then "death us part" should be the main objective. Of course, everyone knows that a marriage has it's ups and downs. It's part of life having to encounter with ups and downs but it doesn't mean one should immediately divorce. There's a reason for kissing and making up.



Yes, We all will die one way or other. So, in another word - If one is in a marriage that turns for the worse and would rather to die than to avoid divorce is putting a great deal of hardship on his/her self as a whole.
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Vampy, You know 50 percent of marriage to divorced. It's not always true. It depend on everyone individual of marriage couples. I am wonder are you married or single??

Everyone are divorced for reason why? Abusive, violent, drugs abuse, problem with money, affair, cheating, not happy together, wrong soul mate, disrespect women feeling and too much stress with kids' misbehave. And never get communicate together, no faith with god, don't want to have sex for fun.

The most children parents' divorced cause get rebel in teenager, depress, not obey parent's rules, live in 2 places like at mother and father's. The kids do need parent's money to buy them a clothes or go out for somewhere with friends or go mall with no money. Some parents do not have make an enough money when they are final divorced. That's so sad!

Do you know why most men want to do suicide themselves?? They didn't want to divorce with women because of money and pay the child supports and split the money from wife and husband. Every women get everything men's things from the house to keep it. Men do live on the street, small apt, and live in the car. Men can't have his stuff out of his ex wife's house. Some men do have mental illness or disorder and use on drug abuse addict can cause kill his ex wife and children.

Everyone are marriage for long term. Do you know why?? Because they are good in communicate, find a right relationship and marriage from God's answer their pray what they want to be together and be happy marriage, the marriage couple always talk a faith to god, need to spend time together go somewhere for a special romantic, go out of eat, need to love more than money, they have to share with money in budget balance together, want to have a true family and etc.

Have you experience with divorce or break up with your gf??


I am going to get marry next 5 weeks left to go. Me and my soon to be husband together for 4 half years now. We are happy together. I rather not be die at young age. I prefer until we get an elder maybe live so long. LoL
 
Banjo said:
Really? I thought we were immortal.
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Resurrection comes after bodily death, unless Rapture happens first.

Bodily death does end marriage.

Mat. 22
29 Jesus answered and said unto them, Ye do err, not knowing the scriptures, nor the power of God. 30 For in the resurrection they neither marry, nor are given in marriage, but are as the angels of God in heaven.
 
VamPyroX said:
Bingo! So, a person who is truly willing to avoid divorce will rather die. :)
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Not exactly.

I'd rather avoid divorce and live (with Hubby) for a long happy time. :)
 
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