Ironheartz said:
I'm curious-are there any one of you involved into interracial realtionship? If not, why not? If you're in one, how has it affected your life? I would love to hear your stories or testimonies.
I had several experiences with different races (mexican, burmese and japanese) and now dating with pure Swedish woman. It does not bother me whichever color or race as long as I am happy being with one of these gals.
I am a "mutt" (well, most percentage is Swedish) and I have some "black" and "native american" flows in my blood. I have been always want to date Swedish, German or Finnish woman but now I have a Swedish woman as date
(actually I would date with any that I would like to)
Key words: Being happy with your lover.. races or colors are incredibly meaningless in relationship/friendship area... But again, it is depend on how people raise, bad trauma from certain race, etc etc.
I had a relationship with burmese gal for a long time (2 years and one month, I believe..) I learned lots about her culture and the way of life her family grew up in that country. It was a quite pleasure to experience with that kind of thing for the moment but unfortunately that we did not get along in one or two months before we broke up though. She made several poor judgement in these situation time to time *shrugs* In any case, I was glad that I learned some more about her culture because people in Burma are undergoing the harsh situation for a long time and it gave me a new perspective about others who went thru tough times (And Burma have interesting culture!). This Swedish gal I am currently dating is interesting woman, very strong and VERY affectionate wow.. I never had that experience with any women like that swedish woman. I mean, true faith and completely devotion to our relationship or love... she don't have any experience with guys (means no dates, relationships or sex at all with any guys) I am practically first guy for her and she don't believe in dating or sex with different guys, she actually think that it is ridiculous or "slutty" thing for any women to do so o: (her opinion after all) She gave me a completely new perspective on "love" and surprisely that I like the way she believes in. She have a excellent point about "experience", she stated that she can experience anything with same guy and miss nothing hence why bother to try different so-called "experiences" with any guys when she can keep her dignity clean with same guy? Her several girlfriends actually follow up what she are doing! I am still learning about her and her swedish culture.. Oh one odd thing about her, she told me that she rather not to date any black guys, she stated that there is nothing wrong with black people, she would love to be their friends but not any more than just friends and few swedishs I met told me that it is Swedish culture thing hmm, like I said.. "depend on how people raise.."
Anyway that's only small part of experiences that I had/have with these women (I have several stories about japanese woman I dated for several months but I doubt that some of you actually want to know about my experiences with women anyway :P) btw, I am a white guy.
Edit: Oh OH! I have to add one more thing about that swedish woman, one BEST thing about her is: She actually read "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" book series wrote by John Gray! (I read few John Gray books myself too) so I can understand why women are doing that and that (not 100% though.. women are natural mysterious entities) also to work out the problems in relationship bit more easier too. Anyway that's one thing I like about her.