Hello guys Im new here, Im hearing and i had a deaf bf online..we dated for almost 8yrs and recently broke up(last month..)
ok heres the story..(its kinda long so just bear with it..)
i met this deaf guy online in a chat room and i didnt know I will date with him because IM MARRIED (but having prob with my marriage life)..AND HAVE KIDS..yes...I am...
First when i started to talk to him he didnt know i was married and have kids cuz i didnt tell him till we dated (2002)and after 6months dating him I told him the truth that im married and have kids and i broke up with him and lost contact for 3months but after that he came back begging me to come back to him cuz he loves me and he accepts me eventhoug im married..I love him then so we continue our online relationship...I didnt know he was deaf..cuz we just talk on messenger..I was wondering why he hasnt call me on phone and i asked him, but he said he is a student and cant afford lont distance call, which convinced me not to force him to call me..after 4 yrs of dating him. He one day told me that he is deaf....I couldnt believe myself,..he asked me if i can accept him as my husband because he said he wants to marry me in the future..I couldnt answer soon that time...but i was thinking the love i have for him and the way he told me that he loves me and the care he gave me..(which is i never had with my hubby)..So i accept him as who he is..we had our ons and offs in 8yrs..there are times that i was the one who wants to broke up and he kept on coming back to me telling that he really loves me and i was weak to hear that so I continue seeing him..
But...he cheated on me twice for that 8yrs
which is the reason now we broke up recently...Oh forgot to say he is a CHRISTIAN...
I love this deaf guy so much..but now i knew he just used and fooled me..
For everything I did for him and for everything he said to me..
And now i find out that nobody in his friends know about me.. cuz he doesnt want to ruin his christian image...Yes.. alll of his friends know him as a Christian and a good deaf guy..
I caught him cheating on me again recently and he just made his drama that we have to a part cuz im married etc..etc.. which is he already knew..
I feel ashamed of wat i did giving him all of me....
Im preparing to be with him in the future cuz he said he really loves me so im working hard and saving for our start
Hes now flirting with the girl but he hide about me to that girl..but the girl found out about me..and he said I destroyed him to that girl..
I told him to tell the girl the truth(that he dated a married woman) I dunno if he did..but i think he will tell lies cuz he wants to remain his good image as a christian to that girl (the girl is deaf)
I dunno why he did these all to me..Im now lost and cant sleep at nite thinking of wat happened..
can somebody give me advice
Still loving Tai D.
ok heres the story..(its kinda long so just bear with it..)
i met this deaf guy online in a chat room and i didnt know I will date with him because IM MARRIED (but having prob with my marriage life)..AND HAVE KIDS..yes...I am...
First when i started to talk to him he didnt know i was married and have kids cuz i didnt tell him till we dated (2002)and after 6months dating him I told him the truth that im married and have kids and i broke up with him and lost contact for 3months but after that he came back begging me to come back to him cuz he loves me and he accepts me eventhoug im married..I love him then so we continue our online relationship...I didnt know he was deaf..cuz we just talk on messenger..I was wondering why he hasnt call me on phone and i asked him, but he said he is a student and cant afford lont distance call, which convinced me not to force him to call me..after 4 yrs of dating him. He one day told me that he is deaf....I couldnt believe myself,..he asked me if i can accept him as my husband because he said he wants to marry me in the future..I couldnt answer soon that time...but i was thinking the love i have for him and the way he told me that he loves me and the care he gave me..(which is i never had with my hubby)..So i accept him as who he is..we had our ons and offs in 8yrs..there are times that i was the one who wants to broke up and he kept on coming back to me telling that he really loves me and i was weak to hear that so I continue seeing him..
But...he cheated on me twice for that 8yrs
which is the reason now we broke up recently...Oh forgot to say he is a CHRISTIAN...
I love this deaf guy so much..but now i knew he just used and fooled me..
For everything I did for him and for everything he said to me..
And now i find out that nobody in his friends know about me.. cuz he doesnt want to ruin his christian image...Yes.. alll of his friends know him as a Christian and a good deaf guy..
I caught him cheating on me again recently and he just made his drama that we have to a part cuz im married etc..etc.. which is he already knew..
I feel ashamed of wat i did giving him all of me....
Im preparing to be with him in the future cuz he said he really loves me so im working hard and saving for our start
Hes now flirting with the girl but he hide about me to that girl..but the girl found out about me..and he said I destroyed him to that girl..
I told him to tell the girl the truth(that he dated a married woman) I dunno if he did..but i think he will tell lies cuz he wants to remain his good image as a christian to that girl (the girl is deaf)
I dunno why he did these all to me..Im now lost and cant sleep at nite thinking of wat happened..
can somebody give me advice
Still loving Tai D.
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