How do you know for sure if your partner is cheating on you??

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HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOUR PARTNER IS REALLY CHEATING ON YOU OR NOT?
 
Nobody really ever knows until you catch him/her. Why worry about it?
 
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Uh, I thought it is an easy answer by catching a boyfriend/girlfriend?

I'd rather to not worry too much...
 
telltale signs

Work hours change

A differecnce in where they normally place things like purse, wallet and cell

turning off cell when home

travels more for "work"

stops eating dinner.....may have already eaten

becomes either much closer or much more distant to the kids

withdraws from extended family functions

significant change in wardrobe or hairstyle

forgets to wear ring

shortage of funds.

unknown underwear in the bed

make up perfume or glitter on shirt
 
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Loss of interest or communication is an obvious sign to look into.
 
Well, if ur partner has all of the above mentioned, and ur "still not sure"...then you've got a screw loose....
Sometimes they'll keep "looking" at their watch, makes you feel they don't want to talk, haven't got the time for you.....come home very late and say "Don't start"! I'm very tired"! and go to bed, closing the door...if you really know ur partner, then you can spot the tell-tell signs. They avoid the issue when you quiz them about "what's going on."

It's emotional abuse, they're ashamed of what they are doing (cheating). But instead of sitting down to talk about it, they won't, keep putting it off......So, it leaves you in "limbo", not really knowing if he/she is cheating or not!.....making you feel bad that you "suspect" something is going on but can't prove it.....Sometimes you have to do a little detective work on ur own.
 
TXgolfer said:
telltale signs

Work hours change

A differecnce in where they normally place things like purse, wallet and cell

turning off cell when home

travels more for "work"

stops eating dinner.....may have already eaten

becomes either much closer or much more distant to the kids

withdraws from extended family functions

significant change in wardrobe or hairstyle

forgets to wear ring

shortage of funds.

unknown underwear in the bed

make up perfume or glitter on shirt
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:eek3: like a soap opera! :P
 
Cheating partners always get caught sooner or later. A partner finds a letter, an email, a credit card charge, etc. One wife even found a viagra bottle and the husband was not using it with her! If you are suspicious, then maybe you should find out.
 
If he never had you over his place, it is a good chance that he is married. That is what happened to a co-worker.
 
If you feel like it is very bothering you, it is not worth to staying with the same parther because it proves that you cannot trust your parther which doesn't show much love. You doubts his/her love will not only hurt your feelings, but also hurts your parther feelings too as well.

That is why trust is important part for to feel the love, doubting each other don't show very good bonds for each other love.
 
Condoms appearing everywhere when you had your tubes tied.

Accusations of you cheating on them. (They feel bad for cheating, then wonder if you are doing it since they are doing it, so to accuse is to make them feel less guilty.)

Sex life suddenly stops. Excuses of being tired, not feeling well, less open to you.

Spends a lot of time texting.
 
My suspicous power does wonders. ;) A slight change in the air will notice for me.
 
TXgolfer said:
telltale signs

Work hours change

A differecnce in where they normally place things like purse, wallet and cell

turning off cell when home

travels more for "work"

stops eating dinner.....may have already eaten

becomes either much closer or much more distant to the kids

withdraws from extended family functions

significant change in wardrobe or hairstyle

forgets to wear ring

shortage of funds.

unknown underwear in the bed

make up perfume or glitter on shirt
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:giggle: unknown underwear in the bed!... bit of a give-a-way allright!!

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Hmmm, I'd have to catch them in person. I will break up with my partner instantly. Unless, they have to let me in and play. =)

Just to spice my relationship up a little bit. Of course, I will deal with that bastard.
 
Partner? You mean friend with benefits to have sex and if either of you cheating with someone else? Make no sense.
 
catch them. hire someone to follow your lover. good luck.
 
PowerON said:
Partner? You mean friend with benefits to have sex and if either of you cheating with someone else? Make no sense.
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It was a humor. Sorry you missed that.

Threesome!!

I busted my ex f**king around with a guy. I told him to include me or we call the relationship off. So, he pulled me in and had a good time for five hours with that damn cute.

Everything went well after that guy left. He did not cheat me again, ever! If he wanted someone hotter, he includes me. Hot times!!
 
Endy said:
It was a humor. Sorry you missed that.

Threesome!!

I busted my ex f**king around with a guy. I told him to include me or we call the relationship off. So, he pulled me in and had a good time for five hours with that damn cute.

Everything went well after that guy left. He did not cheat me again, ever! If he wanted someone hotter, he includes me. Hot times!!
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good for you!
 
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