HOH what should i do

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sweetkisses89

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I work at a club and met a guy who I here along with which is rear since my separation. at first I didn't tell him I was hard of hearing since I read lips and I'm oral. now that I told him it seems like he is challenging my hearing to see if I really can't hear him. I try to explain that not ever HOH or deaf person is the same and we all hear differently but he isn't getting it. it's really frustrating and I don't no what to do.


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Try to talk about it in a guy way. Tell---- "I'm hard of hearing which means I may not hear a car with turbocharged engine VROOMing by. You'll have to tell me what every engines sounds. I like turbo charged engine and am sad that I'm having a hard time hearing them. Fill me in. Show me your love"
 
dereksbicycles said:
Try to talk about it in a guy way. Tell---- "I'm hard of hearing which means I may not hear a car with turbocharged engine VROOMing by. You'll have to tell me what every engines sounds. I like turbo charged engine and am sad that I'm having a hard time hearing them. Fill me in. Show me your love"
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Thanks for the advice I normal just turn to my right side so then I can't really hear him. my family is the same way so I don't talk much.


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I totally understand your frustration my partner as I will call her tests to me looker this all the time yes it's very frustrating to be challenged everyday. if you ever need to vent feel free to message me.


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Sounds like an idiot to be honest. Those kinds of people irritate me. Anyway, just tell him what's on your mind. If it bothers you let him know.
 
Jerlene said:
Sounds like an idiot to be honest. Those kinds of people irritate me. Anyway, just tell him what's on your mind. If it bothers you let him know.
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I think I want to have him wear ear plugs for a whole day so he can be in my position.



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sweetkisses89 said:
I work at a club and met a guy who I here along with which is rear since my separation. at first I didn't tell him I was hard of hearing since I read lips and I'm oral. now that I told him it seems like he is challenging my hearing to see if I really can't hear him. I try to explain that not ever HOH or deaf person is the same and we all hear differently but he isn't getting it. it's really frustrating and I don't no what to do.


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DUMP his ass and run !!! Im in that situation now and I should have walked away at the first sign of ignorance!
 
I wouldn't date him. If he makes fun of you or testing you...I wouldn't date him. I'll tell him get a life and find someone else if you can't accept. I have been with my for almost 5 years, sometimes if I had made mistakes on my language, he would tell me I am saying this wrong, fix it. He helps me improve my language much more. And, no he doesn't sign....very much :-/ lol
 
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