sweet4u618
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I had hard decisions while I had boyfriend. I was so confused because I misunderstood him before. We argued so much so we could not understand well enough with too many points. I had first mistake and will not do that again. My mistake was that I tell my family about my boyfriend that I was not sure of over online. I also tell my boyfriend what my family say about him. So he was more stress than I did that caused him to argue with me plus tired of my repeat news (sometimes forgetting). so then I broke up and still be friend with him. I found out a lot things that seemed to straight out to clear up understanding and no arugments at all. He told me if I did not break up that he almost asked to marry me. Otherwise he already have new gf. so I learned not to do that again to tell my parents or my sister about my next bf's background. and that they have to accept me if it is long distance. I misunderstood him because once he asked me about moving where that made me thinking he want to take me away from family and friends cuz of my experience that different old past guy did take me away once , it same meaning as (he controls me) for example but not really. he was just talking about it. I was so understanding and very clear over phone last nite about that. for next guy, i would not tell like that to less causing plm and less and help myself to make my own decison straight and clear what i want not my family or friend. I have to make decision than wishy washy habits growing up. Is it still okay to be friend after I broke up? Last nite I found out over phone. It popped up but he already have girlfriend. so I am really depressed but my female cousin showed up today it helped me up. I might be ready to date on next guy that I know of someday. u can email me about your experiences that is same as me or is curious about me or ask me questions if u need help from me with solving verbal abuse , abuse or "misunderstanding and that person not really controlling which it looks like but not". So my problem I need to improve is to get to know ppl background more if i want to be on a date. that keeps me smooth than rush and more understanding.