First, I have NEVER said anything about being an expert on raising a deaf toddler-- that's one reason I joined here was to gain perspective-- I do however know what works for my toddler who has issues beyond his deafness--
My 'chip' is a vast majority of the kids here are NOT speech or hearing kids... they're realted to children who were-- and have 'graduated' OR are from very affluent families (hence the HUGE fundraiser) -- who use the school as a stepping stone to other private schools... not utilizing the services. YES I have issue w/that-- when there are kids in the community who need services like they offer but can't afford to attend there, and the classes are full w/a majority of 'typical' kids-- had the fundraiser even remotely been to provide even ONE scholarship a year I might feel differently...
And although several of the d/hoh kids who attend there DO NOT have CI's but rather HA's but there is a preference to the CI kids when describing the 'success' of the program... As if the HA kids who have been successful don't count???[/QUOTE]
And that is why I created the thread "Geez! Here we go with this BS" because it seems to be a growing problem.
Anyways, good posting and I understand where you are coming from.