if you and your boyfriend been together more than 5 years, lives together and he never proposed after together more than 5 years? why the boyfriend never ask? what it tha mean? is it mean hes not ready or scared to be commitment in marriage?
crsa said:if you and your boyfriend been together more than 5 years, lives together and he never proposed after together more than 5 years? why the boyfriend never ask? what it tha mean? is it mean hes not ready or scared to be commitment in marriage?
It means why should he bother to get married and be a responsible man when he can get everything he wants from you without marriage.crsa said:if you and your boyfriend been together more than 5 years, lives together and he never proposed after together more than 5 years? why the boyfriend never ask? what it tha mean? is it mean hes not ready or scared to be commitment in marriage?
Latter one. Most men are afraid of commitment in marriage.crsa said:if you and your boyfriend been together more than 5 years, lives together and he never proposed after together more than 5 years? why the boyfriend never ask? what it tha mean? is it mean hes not ready or scared to be commitment in marriage?
Reba said:It means why should he bother to get married and be a responsible man when he can get everything he wants from you without marriage.
Liza said:That's what I was thinking, too.
I don't think it would be a problem if you were to share your feelings with your partner whose mind is not on marriage.. either way you'd get your way, even if you have to end the relationship and find somebody else who has the same direction as you do or the odd partner will think about it and ultimately agree to be married.
Either way, give yourselves the time to really decide marriage is for both of you for a lifetime. Don't just settle for somebody just because you've been together so long you're used to this person, or you think nobody else will want you.
Malfoyish said:Good advice, chickie.
My mother (or is it her mother?) always says - why buy the cow if they can get the milk for free?? It is also possible that your living arrangements make it easy for your boyfriend to take it for granted. He may very well be comfortable with the way it is, because it isn't a legal commitment.
My suggestion? YOU propose. See what happens. If he's keen on the idea, then wonderful!! You will enjoy planning your wedding. If not, then unfortunately you may realize that some things were simply too "convenient" for him and it was never what he was seeking in the first place. Five years is a long time, especially when co-existing without marriage vows being exchanged.
Grab him by the nuts and have a nice chat with him later. Good luck.