sally and Abby
we've had some discussions about pitties on here, Abby, in which I did participate if you ever have the time or inclination to find them.
thanks for apology there, I know many people who love dogs but are afraid of or don't like Pitties. I work with lots of wonderful Pitties in the shelter and in rescue and you are right in that many people have them for the wrong reasons and also many people simply are not qualified to have a Pit Bull - or a Rottie, to be honest. These types of dogs undergo extra scrutiny and many insurances etc won't cover an individual with either of these dogs - ours is one of the few I've found that will. Rotts and Pits really need a highly dog-experienced owner or guardian, and they ideally should be breed ambassadors. There's simply a lot of extra work that can go into having a breed or type in which these kinds of issues are present...another reason why I don't go to dog parks - I don't want to have Jane Q. Public see my very sweet but dog-reactive Rottie going off at the end of the leash, it's part of my responsibility of having this breed of dog.
That all there, Pit Bulls as a group <there are individuals, of course> tend to be very kind-hearted, gregarious, trusting dogs with PEOPLE and most of the ones I've come across in the dog parks fit that description. As a group, they tend to be EXTREMELY tolerant of mistakes people make with dogs <unlike Rotties which have a different temperament altogether> because of their history as fighting dogs.
Pits are not by default killing machines but they are powerful with the tenacity of any Terrier.
your girlie does look VERY sweet and cuddly, Abby
sally, your dog park story is very common...many more dog parks have separate areas for small and bigger dogs now and if I had different dogs, that would be one thing I 'd look for if investigating the possibility of using a dog park.