Different between real and fake friend/dating online

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Okay, I decide to ask or share to someone. Who and where will not reveal.

Thru my quite experience, someone found me thru one of my friend. I never meet her in person, not yet. So far, I know I had good and nice chat with her.

She finally share her picture to me. I find it bit corny because photo are too pro. Yet, I able to notice the tiny watermark.

So, I decide and look up on website. Turn out, it's porn.. Actual, more like, just a nude photo. So, I decide to do a bit research as extra caution. I find all her name under different several name on vary nudity photo web. All profiles are probably fake.

Only one thing, she chat well as human begin as I had experience with vary other people, unlike scammer. I know, she seem isn't scammer.

So, I decide to revisit one of my friend who is also involved in nudity photo for some questions. Turn out that there are most of them are put their fake info on profile as anyone else shouldn't seen her.

To think myself... either she is scammer and try to get something from me. Or... she is just protect herself?

I only can hope that she actual protect herself and therefore, I should do nothing but keep on route as we have a good conversation thry online. Man... I'm bit scary because it's different for me to deal with it.
 
aww it sounds like you are falling in love with her through online. have you ever ask her about the photo? sorry if i would not able to help you out. I have never experienced like your situation. i am taken and more of caution around online people. it would make me more shield of myself and protected from online people in some screwed up way. =?
 
Frisky Feline said:
aww it sounds like you are falling in love with her through online. have you ever ask her about the photo? sorry if i would not able to help you out. I have never experienced like your situation. i am taken and more of caution around online people. it would make me more shield of myself and protected from online people in some screwed up way. =?
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I agree. Power, Your friend referred her to you?

Ask your online friend, and confront her about the photo she sent you. If not, talk to the friend that hooked you guys up.



If she sent you a fake picture. Makes me wonder why she will not show a true photo. :hmm:
 
Babyblue said:
I agree. Power, Your friend referred her to you?

Ask your online friend, and confront her about the photo she sent you. If not, talk to the friend that hooked you guys up.



If she sent you a fake picture. Makes me wonder why she will not show a true photo. :hmm:
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I did ask one of my friend who have connect with her.

And she did show one of her child photo, I can tell that it being scan from newspaper or magazine, face is very identify to her professional photo.
 
Frisky Feline said:
aww it sounds like you are falling in love with her through online. have you ever ask her about the photo? sorry if i would not able to help you out. I have never experienced like your situation. i am taken and more of caution around online people. it would make me more shield of myself and protected from online people in some screwed up way. =?
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it could be that people who are in specs nudity model that wish to not reveal. So, I may understand or not. I shall have to be careful myself. That's all.
 
It could be that this person's self esteem is so low that she feels a true picture of herself isn't adeaquate? Regardless of the reason..its dishonest and sneaky, especially if you're having personal conversations with her and exposing true facts about yourself.
If it was me..i'd run.... fast and far. Not an ideal situation to get yourself emotionally involved with.
 
Whatever the reason for the deception, it's probably best if you move on. If you waste time with her, you're denying some other honest woman of your company. :hug:
 
Internet dating?...Nah!...Even tho' I've read/heard of some successful unions, I would not waste my time, it's a fluke!
 
PowerON said:
it could be that people who are in specs nudity model that wish to not reveal. So, I may understand or not. I shall have to be careful myself. That's all.
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yes that is wise for you to be careful. Too bad that you wouldnt know her through other deaf friends who know her. sometimes it helps if you know your friend who knows her then it would be safer to know she is real one. oh well
 
be careful. It happened to me once on FB. My friend referred a female friend to me. I was puzzled and accepted her, but I realized her profile may be fake to me after I saw no "delete friend" button on her FB page. I decided to report her to FB, then set block on her.

Eventually, I changed my password and warned my friends about her for cautionary measures. Once I accepted her, then she automatically tries to add my friends to her fake FB profile. That's why I warned my friends about it on my FB status.
I have to be more careful from now on. :roll: duh at me.
 
Oddball said:
be careful. It happened to me once on FB. My friend referred a female friend to me. I was puzzled and accepted her, but I realized her profile may be fake to me after I saw no "delete friend" button on her FB page. I decided to report her to FB, then set block on her.

Eventually, I changed my password and warned my friends about her for cautionary measures. Once I accepted her, then she automatically tries to add my friends to her fake FB profile. That's why I warned my friends about it on my FB status.
I have to be more careful from now on. :roll: duh at me.
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wow! no delete friend button. do you remember what was her name? i have receive couple of stranges that i dont know them but i did see that they have 1 or 2 deaf friends as mutal friend so i denied it. :shock:
 
PowerON said:
Okay, I decide to ask or share to someone. Who and where will not reveal.

Thru my quite experience, someone found me thru one of my friend. I never meet her in person, not yet. So far, I know I had good and nice chat with her.

She finally share her picture to me. I find it bit corny because photo are too pro. Yet, I able to notice the tiny watermark.

So, I decide and look up on website. Turn out, it's porn.. Actual, more like, just a nude photo. So, I decide to do a bit research as extra caution. I find all her name under different several name on vary nudity photo web. All profiles are probably fake.

Only one thing, she chat well as human begin as I had experience with vary other people, unlike scammer. I know, she seem isn't scammer.

So, I decide to revisit one of my friend who is also involved in nudity photo for some questions. Turn out that there are most of them are put their fake info on profile as anyone else shouldn't seen her.

To think myself... either she is scammer and try to get something from me. Or... she is just protect herself?

I only can hope that she actual protect herself and therefore, I should do nothing but keep on route as we have a good conversation thry online. Man... I'm bit scary because it's different for me to deal with it.
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I know alot of people who fake a picture of themselves but they are usually self conscious about how they really look. So they come up with a fantasy image of themselves on the internet... sexy blond, etc. personally, I would stay away from people like that because they are not really looking for a real relationship. Rather they are scammers or just people who who are lonely. She may even be married... or she may be afraid you wouldn't like her because in real life, she is fat. in rare cases, teens will do that especially when they don't want you to know they are teenagers.

or she may be just plainly afraid of people on the internet like you mentioned. Whatever the reason, I don't think it is going to work.
 
I see that she might be the real thing. You should ask her about it, if she is honest, maybe she will share other pictures (non-porns, that is)... but porns... I don't know I could handle a relationship like that.
 
I agree, I'd confront her about it or test her to see if she is lying before confronting her.
 
Ah, It sounds like you're unsure of that person but at the same time you're being confused as to believing her or not.

Perhaps, It may be a help if you know of more than ONE friend that knows her. If you do, you could ask your other friends about her and see what they say about her. Sometime it helps to get to know her better through her friends, etc.

But, IMO, I see a red flag on this because, even if she was a nude model; She should also be honest and forthcoming to you, that is if she trust you enough with it. If she isn't honest enough with you, then how will the friendship keep growing?

It's one thing to have a friendship based on a lie than having a friendship based on honesty.

Just saying.

Good Luck. :)
 
Just move on... There are plenty of fish in the sea... :)

No seriously, just move on. There tons of wonderful women out in the world.
 
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