did any of you told your family about being GLBT? what was the result?
i told my sister once that i was BI and she freaked out big time.naturally i was hurt cuz i thought i could tell her anything. Grandparents disowned me for several years but now i visit them stubbornly because i m trying to prove to them that no matter what condition is no matter how much they hurt me, ill alway be there for them and ill alway love them. they might learn from me... or they might never will. *shrugs* Of course i was hurt and ANGRY, had lot of agruement with them about that issue and lot of others too. now its kinda getting better cuz i am stubborn and kept on trying to get in touch and etc.
I told my dad and he reacted first by being shocked then joking asked me if he can have videotape of the action. (his way of handling the news he didnt like by joking about things.... he never really wanted it lol) later he came to me, told me he think its cool, after all its my choice, my life... but he would like to have at least a grandchild first if thats possible.... his hint was to tell me he prefer me being straight but tries hard not to control or reject me.
my mom never knew cuz she died before i found out about being Bi sexual. But i could imagine her reaction. she would accept it freely and probably would tease me about it once in a while in good nature.. probably ask me why i feel that way and would have good discuss about it.
so whats yours? oh yea if u did told them and saw their reactions.. what was your reaction to their reaction? (hope u guys understand my last question lol)
i told my sister once that i was BI and she freaked out big time.naturally i was hurt cuz i thought i could tell her anything. Grandparents disowned me for several years but now i visit them stubbornly because i m trying to prove to them that no matter what condition is no matter how much they hurt me, ill alway be there for them and ill alway love them. they might learn from me... or they might never will. *shrugs* Of course i was hurt and ANGRY, had lot of agruement with them about that issue and lot of others too. now its kinda getting better cuz i am stubborn and kept on trying to get in touch and etc.
I told my dad and he reacted first by being shocked then joking asked me if he can have videotape of the action. (his way of handling the news he didnt like by joking about things.... he never really wanted it lol) later he came to me, told me he think its cool, after all its my choice, my life... but he would like to have at least a grandchild first if thats possible.... his hint was to tell me he prefer me being straight but tries hard not to control or reject me.
my mom never knew cuz she died before i found out about being Bi sexual. But i could imagine her reaction. she would accept it freely and probably would tease me about it once in a while in good nature.. probably ask me why i feel that way and would have good discuss about it.
so whats yours? oh yea if u did told them and saw their reactions.. what was your reaction to their reaction? (hope u guys understand my last question lol)
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