neecy
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In another thread, Lilly's Dad mentioned that he took her to a Deaf Nation event and was confronted with hostility, revulsion, negativity and disdain because his daughter has a CI, and he wants to give her the chance to be involved with the deaf community.
So many times over the last while, I've read people here decry that hearing parents implant their chilren then deny them the opportunity to learn about the deaf community and Deaf culture. When parents are faced with disgust when they have an implanted child, or told that the reason for it is because they're "just there to rub CI's in the faces of the deaf community" (totally untrue), called "audists", and insulted at every turn, is it any wonder more parents of implanted children don't even try to make contact with the deaf community?
The deaf community decries that implanted children (and even adults) are leaving, but they make no attempt to try to meet them halfway, and when parents TRY to teach their children ASL/sign language and give their children the opportunity to learn, they're rediculed. When miscommunication happens based on misinformation that is passed around the deaf community (CI's mean you have an open hole in your head. CI's mean you can't have showers or swim. CI's make people hate the deaf community, CI's are cultural genocide), and an effort is made to educate them on the facts, it falls on "deaf ears" (no pun intended) and its pointedly ignored - so that the same arguement/misinformation can be brought up again and again. In the face of such ignorance, many throw in the towel.
HOW can we find a way so that parents of implanted children CAN become involved with the deaf community, so BOTH can learn about each other without the heckling?
I don't want this thread turning into "I hate" debate - I would like to hear suggestions on how the THREE cultures (hearing, deaf, and CI-assisted) can come together in harmony. Its a big beautiful world - we should all be able to live together happily.
suggestions? ideas?
So many times over the last while, I've read people here decry that hearing parents implant their chilren then deny them the opportunity to learn about the deaf community and Deaf culture. When parents are faced with disgust when they have an implanted child, or told that the reason for it is because they're "just there to rub CI's in the faces of the deaf community" (totally untrue), called "audists", and insulted at every turn, is it any wonder more parents of implanted children don't even try to make contact with the deaf community?
The deaf community decries that implanted children (and even adults) are leaving, but they make no attempt to try to meet them halfway, and when parents TRY to teach their children ASL/sign language and give their children the opportunity to learn, they're rediculed. When miscommunication happens based on misinformation that is passed around the deaf community (CI's mean you have an open hole in your head. CI's mean you can't have showers or swim. CI's make people hate the deaf community, CI's are cultural genocide), and an effort is made to educate them on the facts, it falls on "deaf ears" (no pun intended) and its pointedly ignored - so that the same arguement/misinformation can be brought up again and again. In the face of such ignorance, many throw in the towel.
HOW can we find a way so that parents of implanted children CAN become involved with the deaf community, so BOTH can learn about each other without the heckling?
I don't want this thread turning into "I hate" debate - I would like to hear suggestions on how the THREE cultures (hearing, deaf, and CI-assisted) can come together in harmony. Its a big beautiful world - we should all be able to live together happily.
suggestions? ideas?