I often wish there's big or full-scholarships, especially for the deaf who don't want to go to CSUN, Galludet, or RIT (where the VR/Gov't would usually pay you to go for those) and want to pursue his or her education elsewhere. I feel your pain. I also go to a college that's over 50k per year.
One day, I would like to start a foundation that would competitively award full scholarships to many highly qualified deaf students at any college of his or her own choosing. For now...have you tried fastweb? Perhaps talk to the VR people about seeing if they're willing to support you, especially if you're studying something unique?