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My friend shared with me about this person she knows. I dont know if it is a friend of hers or a family member. She wanted my opinion but I was stumped on this one.
Here is the situation. This person, a woman, is getting married this Fall. This will be her 2nd marriage and she already has 2 kids from her ex husband. Here is the kicker..she is still good friends with her ex-hubby and they do things together sometimes as friends. However, her ex-hubby dates but no serious relationship since their divorce which was like 3 years ago or so, I think. So, she is getting married and as she and her fiancee were planning the guest list, she put down her ex-hubby as the first person to invite. Her fiancee wasnt happy about it and prefers not to invite him but she said that his feelings would be hurt and that her children would be upset if he wasn't invited. Her fiancee's view is that her ex-hubby is from the past and the past should be left in the past but her view is that her ex-hubby is her good friend and wants to invite her good friends to her wedding. Now, she and her fiancee are at crossroads with each other and it is causing tension in their relationship.
My friend asked me for my opinion on who was right...I was stumped! I dont know because I think both have a good point.
What do you think? Interesting situation, isn't it? Is she disrespecting his wishes or is he disrespecting her wishes?
Here is the situation. This person, a woman, is getting married this Fall. This will be her 2nd marriage and she already has 2 kids from her ex husband. Here is the kicker..she is still good friends with her ex-hubby and they do things together sometimes as friends. However, her ex-hubby dates but no serious relationship since their divorce which was like 3 years ago or so, I think. So, she is getting married and as she and her fiancee were planning the guest list, she put down her ex-hubby as the first person to invite. Her fiancee wasnt happy about it and prefers not to invite him but she said that his feelings would be hurt and that her children would be upset if he wasn't invited. Her fiancee's view is that her ex-hubby is from the past and the past should be left in the past but her view is that her ex-hubby is her good friend and wants to invite her good friends to her wedding. Now, she and her fiancee are at crossroads with each other and it is causing tension in their relationship.
My friend asked me for my opinion on who was right...I was stumped! I dont know because I think both have a good point.
What do you think? Interesting situation, isn't it? Is she disrespecting his wishes or is he disrespecting her wishes?