did you treat your wife like a queen?

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Sporty Thiev

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wash her feet after she came home from hardworking? cook her favorite meal? pay attention whatever she needs? when she sad and you cheer her up for anything? enjoy sense of humor no matter if it's retard talks she still laugh? then you are real man like I am! :afro:
 
There aren't that many like a real man out there. A woman have to find him like a real man...it is like findin' a needle in the haystack.
 
I would never treat my wife like that, I am not going to spoiling my wife that much. I will treat her as equal as women equal with men. My opinion, husband who treat wife like that "treat her like queen", are just a slave to women, like women's dog. I am not acting like dog, drooling over my wife no thanks.

A true man would let her wife to stay home taking care of children and home, cooking feed to everyone, and man go out working earning money for families, just like my grandparents do. Women can go out working and husband can stay at home feeding everyone and care of home and children as well.

Men go out working and feeding children, and wife, that applies to women too, just don't work out. Sorry.
 
hmmm I do treat my gf a queen sometimes. nothing wrong with that in my opinion and I actually enjoy it sometimes.

I believe men AND women should have a job. women don't always stay home and take care of children. men do that too. they both gotta take turns, its much more fair. smile men gotta do chores and women gotta do chores too.
 
sequoias said:
hmmm I do treat my gf a queen sometimes. nothing wrong with that in my opinion and I actually enjoy it sometimes.

I believe men AND women should have a job. women don't always stay home and take care of children. men do that too. they both gotta take turns, its much more fair. smile men gotta do chores and women gotta do chores too.
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I am with you on this. Fairness and equalized is very important for relationship.
 
PuyoPiyo said:
I would never treat my wife like that, I am not going to spoiling my wife that much. I will treat her as equal as women equal with men. My opinion, husband who treat wife like that "treat her like queen", are just a slave to women, like women's dog. I am not acting like dog, drooling over my wife no thanks.

A true man would let her wife to stay home taking care of children and home, cooking feed to everyone, and man go out working earning money for families, just like my grandparents do. Women can go out working and husband can stay at home feeding everyone and care of home and children as well.

Men go out working and feeding children, and wife, that applies to women too, just don't work out. Sorry.
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haha not really i know what you mean and im not like that...just that im give her plenty of love for what she needs like u know when u have a daughter in the future u will realize it will be more important daddy's little girl all she need a love. i realized that women want to find a good man like their dads who married very long time.
 
sequoias said:
hmmm I do treat my gf a queen sometimes. nothing wrong with that in my opinion and I actually enjoy it sometimes.

I believe men AND women should have a job. women don't always stay home and take care of children. men do that too. they both gotta take turns, its much more fair. smile men gotta do chores and women gotta do chores too.
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of course your right. alot of women have more hardworking than men...like to take care of the kids, feed the family on the table, always supports no matters what. I feel honor for the ladies who been deserve better.
 
Awww that's a sweet post. We, women, shouldnt forget to treat our men like queens too. Men do love getting pampered too! :) I need to do that to my husband tonight cuz he is cooking tacos for all of us. :giggle:
 
Sporty Thiev said:
haha not really i know what you mean and im not like that...just that im give her plenty of love for what she needs like u know when u have a daughter in the future u will realize it will be more important daddy's little girl all she need a love. i realized that women want to find a good man like their dads who married very long time.
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Yeah, it's good to keep your wife to feel love and happy :)
 
Sporty Thiev said:
wash her feet after she came home from hardworking? cook her favorite meal? pay attention whatever she needs? when she sad and you cheer her up for anything? enjoy sense of humor no matter if it's retard talks she still laugh? then you are real man like I am! :afro:
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be careful there. else, can become a pushover and will be exploit by the other half. once she's done with you, she'll abandon for jerks who will treat her like a crap and all that but she'll love it. it happens to million men in the past, present and future. it's a predictable social behavior.

i treat my half other as best as i can to make her feel good but that's it. many, many women don't like to be put on a pedestal. that's why many women like jerks, not nice or good guys who would treat them better. don't ask me why, ask young women about it.
 
Gamer12 said:
be careful there. else, can become a pushover and will be exploit by the other half. once she's done with you, she'll abandon for jerks who will treat her like a crap and all that but she'll love it. it happens to million men in the past, present and future. it's a predictable social behavior.

i treat my half other as best as i can to make her feel good but that's it. many, many women don't like to be put on a pedestal. that's why many women like jerks, not nice or good guys who would treat them better. don't ask me why, ask young women about it.
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Yeah that is true, my cousin Stephany told me that one boy that she dated was too easy for her so she decided to not be his girlfriend.
 
Maria said:
There aren't that many like a real man out there. A woman have to find him like a real man...it is like findin' a needle in the haystack.
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many men like that out in everywhere. my two tokens on it -

  1. women need to learn how to looking. that's it. no complications. just looking, like at man who is sitting right next to you in starbucks. the problem with women is that they're trying real hard to not look for nice or good guys. it baffles sociologists and behavioral specialists for innumerable years.
  2. slowly but surely, many nice men and good men are starting to notice the fact - young women prefer jerks and assholes. only way to hook up with these women by becoming them -- jerks and assholes. don't blame men. blame the game. it's never their fault to start with.
 
PuyoPiyo said:
Yeah that is true, my cousin Stephany told me that one boy that she dated was too easy for her so she decided to not be his girlfriend.
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i'm not surprised about that since it happened to my buddies before. good or nice guys are in the poo-poo situation for a long time but they're starting to understand the game. want a girlfriend? be a jerk or an asshole. that's how the game plays. no ifs. no buts. no etcs. just become them and you win the game.

such is life.
 
Hey I want the OP to be my husband, :lol: just kidding.

But seriously it is one thing to date a jerk/asshole, it is another to be married to a man that is abusive both verbally and physically. It is one thing to a dick, it is another to be downright abusive and manipulative.

Alot of times when the woman is married to an abusive husband, the husband is often filling the womans head with threats of violence and even death. The woman is often manipulated into believing that this is normal for all marriages when the truth it is not.

Now for the OP -- Yes it is good that the husband can pamper the wife but at the same time the husband should not be a slave to the husband and the same goes for the wife pampering the husband.

I think once a week, the wife should pamper the husband completely and another night the husband pampers the wife completely, this way it is fair and each gets a break from the every day routine.

I think that it is good that you are man enough to come here and tell others here that a real man is not afraid to pamper is wife nicely to let them know they are loved and greatly appreciated. A husband should be there for his wife when she needs encouragement, a husband will make his wife laugh with joy. A husband will listen to his wife and let her know her input is valued and has equal value to his, a good husband will know when his wife needs a good foot massage after a hard days work A good husband will know how to make his wife's favorite dessert.

Not all women want an asshole man. Ive already had mine and I would very much rather a man be the person that he really his not put up this stupid jackass front. For me arrogance and assholeness is a big turnoff.
 
shel90 said:
Awww that's a sweet post. We, women, shouldnt forget to treat our men like queens too. Men do love getting pampered too! :) I need to do that to my husband tonight cuz he is cooking tacos for all of us. :giggle:
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thank you i'd appreciated it. yes I am one of them doing the pampered. how was tacos?
 
Gamer12 said:
be careful there. else, can become a pushover and will be exploit by the other half. once she's done with you, she'll abandon for jerks who will treat her like a crap and all that but she'll love it. it happens to million men in the past, present and future. it's a predictable social behavior.

i treat my half other as best as i can to make her feel good but that's it. many, many women don't like to be put on a pedestal. that's why many women like jerks, not nice or good guys who would treat them better. don't ask me why, ask young women about it.
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true...I've been bad boy. I guess she's like it the way i am. I totally agree with you. women love wild things, downearth, and simple life.
 
Gamer12 said:
many men like that out in everywhere. my two tokens on it -

  1. women need to learn how to looking. that's it. no complications. just looking, like at man who is sitting right next to you in starbucks. the problem with women is that they're trying real hard to not look for nice or good guys. it baffles sociologists and behavioral specialists for innumerable years.
  2. slowly but surely, many nice men and good men are starting to notice the fact - young women prefer jerks and assholes. only way to hook up with these women by becoming them -- jerks and assholes. don't blame men. blame the game. it's never their fault to start with.
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I have seen them around here...I dunno why.
 
I would spoil my wife from time to time as my wife would spoil me.

Since I've never been married, the closest experience would be my ex-girlfriend.

I've spoiled her from time to time. I once bought her a bathrobe with the days of the weeks embroidered all over it (Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, etc...). When I gave it to her, I told her that this represented the days of the weeks that I loved her. She thought it was cute.

Another very frequent gift I got her were anything related to leopards. I got her leopard blankets, pillows, stuffed animals, etc.

I even got her things that were related to her favorite Pokemon... Eevee! ;)

Well, we've parted and gone our separate ways. I certainly hope the man she's with now spoils her the same or better. :thumb:
 
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