what is the solution for choosing mate?

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What is the solution for choosing mate?

If my ivy league parents always argue over my mate who should be hearing...my mom keeps me to social or find hearing girls at party or elsewhere, push me go to yale university but I never applied.

If my friends wanted me to find deaf girls where social with friends or at elsewhere, push me go to gallaudet university.

I do not understand why my ivy league parents wanted deaf children to marry hearing to have children future.

ever my parents or wife will cry or heartbroken if having deaf child.
 
some people said there is will happiest relationship between deaf man and hearing woman.
 
Don't focus on choosing a mate. Focus on being the person that a women wants to choose for a mate. Then, it will all work out.
 
you mean I have to ask what she looking for but seems some we have common interests for example, we are catholic, runner, sciences, sims game, museum, workalocholic...
 
sallylou said:
Don't focus on choosing a mate. Focus on being the person that a women wants to choose for a mate. Then, it will all work out.
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Oh great.....I finally recover from the heart attack I had the last time we agreed and now you go and do it again.

*thud*

:gossip:

"he was so young" :tears:
"you said that last time" :roll:
"last time was last month.....still young"
"again....he was a jack ass......who cares"
 
sallylou said:
Don't focus on choosing a mate. Focus on being the person that a women wants to choose for a mate. Then, it will all work out.
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Exactly.

"Choosing a mate" sounds more like what critters in the woods do. :giggle:
 
matajan said:
you mean I have to ask what she looking for but seems some we have common interests for example, we are catholic, runner, sciences, sims game, museum, workalocholic...
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Whar she means is your opinion is the only one that matters. If others don't like her so what. My parents and friends HATED may wife. I didn't care and I was very happy.
 
matajan said:
oh, you have hearing wife? how did you meet her?
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Not anymore......she passed away. But yes she was hearing. I was hearing when we met. She stood by me as I lost my hearing.
 
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matajan said:
What is
the solution for choosing
mate?

If my ivy league parents
always argue over
my mate
who should be hearing...
my mom keeps me to social or
find hearing girls at party
or elsewhere, push me
go to yale university
but I never applied.

If my friends wanted me
to find deaf girls
where social with friends
or at elsewhere, push me
go to gallaudet university.

I do not understand
why my ivy league parents
wanted deaf children
to marry hearing
to have children
future.

ever my parents
or wife will cry
or heartbroken
if having deaf child.
Click to expand...
 
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