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Join Date: Jan 2009
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Do I have the right to refuse to use spoken english?
Do I have the right to refuse to use spoken english and resort to only sign langauge and writing on paper even though I am fully capable of communicating verbally?
I've been looking all over trying to find the answers, but I have no clue. |
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YOU DOMESTIC DISSENT!
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please do call ADA hotline about all of your issues. I strongly advise you to get a lawyer. You're not exactly making your situation any easier than it is. The longer you continue to do this, the bigger problem you will have.
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mandy
Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: Cape Town South Africa
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Don't know about USA, but in South Africa it is in our constitution, you have the right to be addressed in your chosen language AS LONG AS IT IS OFFICIAL LANGUAGE OF COUNTRY. We have 11, and SASL is semi-official 12th.
My suggestion is, if it is important to you to have ASL upheld and recognized as official language, keep using it. |
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Although you have your rights, it's also important to be reasonable.
Here's an example of a deaf person being unreasonable... This woman is deaf. She doesn't have clear speech. No one can understand her. Not even a skilled lipreader can understand her. She walks up to the front counter at a local Taco Bell. When she tries to order her food, the cashier cannot understand her. He asks her to repeat. She gets upset and accuses the cashier of being ignorant. The cashier decides to give her a piece of paper and pen so that she can write down her order. She gets upset again cuz she feels insulted that she was asked to write on paper and pen. A hearing woman behind her offers to interpret for her (she's an interpreter at a local college). She gets upset again saying that she never asked for an interpreter and that she can do fine on her own. She says that she has a right to order any way she wants. Now, was she being reasonable? We can't expect Plan A to go our way. If Plan A doesn't work, be willing to accept Plan B or Plan C. That's how it is with requesting accommodations with your employer. You shouldn't be very demanding and the ADA does require them to give you "reasonable" accommodations. So, don't be too unreasonable. "I want that T-coil set up in my office!" "I want an interpreter sitting next to me at all times!" "I demand C-print along with my interpreter in all meetings!" That's too much.
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Cool Guy!!
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Center of the USA
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I have done this before at the store Catty |
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Cool Guy!!
Join Date: Feb 2007
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Be nice if one can get a taste of it through "mind swap" and understand why hearing people had hard time understanding her if she refuse to try out other communication methods. Catty |
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My nose is light!
Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Oh Thanks Heaven!
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I look over this issue...
Since June 2008 at same time with FCC issue with 10 digits numbers has passed... It similar with that part but point is June 2008 they modify the ADA laws to clarify.... If a employee that cannot being forced by "spoken" due not able to hear their own voice or so on. However; we do provide access communicate is write paper or make post card or whatever to make all EASIER! It doesn't matter because the company have rights.. it used to be company rights due in past ADA laws doesn't explain very specific and detial until now in June 2008 make specific and detial of their and our rights. If they want customer be happy then employee is happy.. if customer is not happy then employee is not happy therefore that company isn't happy. So therefore it need make solution to be happy again.
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Adam P. Valerius, DSC
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I refuse to believe I don't have the right to refuse to speak. I often do even though I can hear fully. I am autistic and I hold a philosophy that we autistic people should be entitled to ASL accommodations under the ADA regardless of which autism spectrum disorder we have & whether we can hear, speak, both, or neither. I have commented about this on WrongPlanet, an Asperger's Syndrome/Autism forum, and here on AD. Here on AD I was verbally attacked about my belief on the very night I joined right after my first post. I don't care about nobody else's opinion of my philosophy. In Cincinnati, OH, there just aren't enough service providers who know ASL...that's why I ever made any comments about having an interpreter. But...no matter who knows ASL & who doesn't...I am NEVER willing to speak to them cuz demonstrating that I can speak at all, even with an impediment as if I am Deaf, they deny me accommodations and aren't flexible with communication. I demand that EVERYONE be flexible with communication if they dunno ASL. If they DO know ASL, I demand that they use it with me...both expressively and receptively. Some people respond spoken when I sign to them and they need NEVER to do so.
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Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: Oroville, Ca.
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Depends on a lot of things. I tend to like to get what I want and am not always reasonable.
A doctor once refused to let any of my family go in with me so my daughter told him she was my interpreter. We used ASL the whole time and I never spoke once. Worked great.
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Amateur Psychiatrist
Join Date: May 2006
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Yes.
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Join Date: Oct 2006
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I can talk. I may sound terrible under stressful conditions or sometime when the moon is funny and my kidneys makes me hear funny, I'd rather not talk. My problem is: I don't know Sign language. Seems like the hearing world tells you to either speak/hear or watch/ASL. I'm caught between the two worlds. I probably fall into the foreign language category and tell them a have a language barrier. Writing on paper would be my solution.
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Join Date: Jan 2009
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Doing What One Wants and Doing What's Best..
The question was asked by MikeJ.. "Do I have the right to refuse to use spoken english and resort to only sign langauge and writing on paper even though I am fully capable of communicating verbally?"
IndieVisible;1242194 then said in part.. Quote:
I agree with IndieVisible;1242194. "You are entitled to do as you wish", but sometimes doing what you wish and doing what is best is two different things on opposite sides of the coin. As a example, ie: you have a right to ride a bicycle (or even walk) to work instead of using your car.. but don't blame your employer for being mad if you're two hours late. Life is hard enough as it is without making it any more diffucult! Shi-Ku Chishiki ShiKu.Chishiki@Gmail.com
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While you have a right, you also need to be reasonable. If you know that not spoken English will create many hardships, then be reasonable and use spoken English. It would certain make things a lot easier. Think about the tax dollars that are being spent on these proceedings. The harder you make it for them, the more they have to spend. The more they have to spend, the more we have to spend.
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Claire Menzies
Join Date: May 2009
Location: Stanley, County Durham, UK
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"BE DEAF & PROUD"
I am deaf proud, I wearing hearing aids. I am proud to be a BSL (British Sign Language) user. Would love to learn ASL. My partner is hearing he can sign. |
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Join Date: Feb 2006
Location: Chicago area
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I guess I just don't understand the whole story. Seems like this is an ongoing saga. I would have to ask the question why would you not want to use English if you know it and can speak it? I don't get it. Wouldn't you want to use whatever tools you have to communicate with the world around you.
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In a pink and black world
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Good point..maybe the effort put to communicate verbally takes this person a lot of work? For me, communicating verbally doesnt require me to think..it comes naturally but for some deaf people, they have to work at it so perhaps it is the case. If not, then that's a question the OP would need to answer.
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