- Jan 4, 2012
- Reaction score
I have no clue :/
I have no clue :/
I was wondering why so many deaf single men, who can't find any ladies yet at time, average between 18 and 40 age. I feel sorry for deaf single men who had deeply and lonely I had seen, once I met a lot of deaf single men when it is social event or at Gallaudet. Ever not likely deaf women, cuz many of them are taken, how comes? I need to understand how and why...
I can't go into it, but I will say that I knew a deaf man who was never successful in that department. He was straight, LOVED P*, and yet, if a cruel gang captured him and forced him to find one woman on the street, take her out for dinner, and bed her that night, or he would be shot dead if he failed. He would fail EVERY SINGLE TiME. Period. I don't know if anyone remembers a Stargate SG-1 episode where O'Neal and Teal'c found themselves in a time loop where the loop started and ended at a specific time. They knew when it would start and end each time, so they would do things like play golf into the Stargate, O'Neal would resign his commission so that he could kiss his dream girl, his subordinate in front of his superior, etc. because none of this would be remembered every time the time loop restarted. The point is, if this man were to be stuck in a time loop, he would be shot every single time. HE HAS NO F* CLUE. He could never figure out how to date successfully. He had nobody to teach him.
It's possible that something happened to them, something in the water or food that somehow damaged or destroyed their ability to attract mates. It's like they're completely unwanted. On the wrong planet, you would say. Said to say, this man I'm talking about died at 32. He couldn't handle it anymore. It was strange... Because he often complained about how women ALWAYS treated him as the go-to for boyfriend problems, telling him their problems with them without realizing he wanted every single one of them. The sort of thing we do with gay men because we know there's no "threat" of unwanted attraction. You can really let your hair down with these guys. It never occurred to these ladies that he viewed them as potential mates.
Now, I will share my experience, even though I'm a woman. Fact is, I was not diagnosed until I was nearing seven and a half and didn't have a decent grasp of the language, any language until I was eight and a half. I grew up a very frustrated child and when I hit puberty, I wanted to screw everyone who seemed remotely attractive. Yet, I couldn't. I couldn't land anybody. And wouldn't be able to until I was 23.
I believe that these guys, like myself because of my late teaching, started out wild. Let me explain what I mean by that. Because some of us were undiagnosed, we functioned on the level of a human living beside another tens of thousands of years ago, when EVERYONE at best possessed a rudimentary level of vocabulary and speech during the Middle Stone Age. I didn't say much of anything except what I needed. We didn't hear music, TV shows like Sesame Street or the cartoons. We just saw them and had no idea what was going on. Just characters moving on the screen. The modern society indoctrination was missed entirely. In my case, I completely missed out on shows like Lidsville, Gilligan's Island, Land of the Lost, Gunsmoke, and all the cartoons, even though I watched them because there was not much else I wanted to do.
In other words, I was functioning at the level of 10,000 years ago, and these men might be, too. I suspect they would be ideal in an environment in which there are no social rules, no language involved. Just watching each other's facial expressions and body language. Just like it was before human language started. I remembered a child I was attracted to, just a couple of years younger than I. I stayed with this family when Dad had to work in the field and Mom was two hours away (I lived with Dad), so at night, we could kiss in bed, and we would play Mom and Dad, except I had no idea what was going on, just that I FELT WONDERFUL inside. It was like magic inside! But as my friends grew socially, I felt left behind and was never able to move ahead along with them. It would be like a cave woman transported through time to today. She wouldn't know what to do, what to say, how to behave. I know just enough to hide the fact that something's wrong. People view me as different, strange. It throws them off and blocks them from being able to simply be with me.
I am semi-feral, with a wordless world view. Are there any guys like that here. We want to hear your stories. I at least would like to hear that this deaf man didn't die in vain to escape his pain.
Thanks, Jiro. Good to see you didn't get what I'm holding back. I didn't go into it, and would prefer not to. Thanks for your understanding.
mx757 said:I was wondering why so many deaf single men, who can't find any ladies yet at time, average between 18 and 40 age. I feel sorry for deaf single men who had deeply and lonely I had seen, once I met a lot of deaf single men when it is social event or at Gallaudet. Ever not likely deaf women, cuz many of them are taken, how comes? I need to understand how and why...
I'm not lonely.... most deaf I know are pussys.. won't do anything except go to deaf clubs.. while I'm busy skydiving, flying airplanes and other fun stuff...
you could get killed but that part of the fun...
No, by statistics, more deaf men fail to marry.
What stats so interested to hear this. I have hope finding an unattached deaf guy now. From my experience many deaf guys are either taken or gay. This gives me hope.
Im a single deaf female and have not found the right deaf guy just because there are not that many or theyre hiding from me lol
Marriage is not required to be in a relationship though that part of stat does not alone s
upport the comment of many deaf men being unattached or in a relationship of some type.
For different reasons women dont look theyre too busy taking care of kid (s) been hurt too many times by insensitive men or have too many stalkers online thats just a few examples against women in general though