What are you thinking about? Part V

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I'm not thinking anything. my brain's still back in bed. I'm at work, and I'm all ....................................................
 
I am thinking that sometimes I wished I could have a girls night out. Not just the same ordinary go to my one and only friend's house to watch a boring movie, but to actually be able to go out and have fun with a group for once. But I can't post this on FB because if my friend found out she would be upset. I will say this because she is my only friend I can just hang with, she's not my best friend though. Actually, to be honest I've not had a best friend, not since grade 2 anyways. It was my undoing though. Besides she has a best friend and other friends she does stuff with. That's OK with me, doesn't bother me. But I guess I'm just ready for a bit more excitement on a positive note.

I just thought of that because I saw a FB status where a small group of women from church are watching Footloose tonight at the theatre. I can't even do this because I work late often. By the time I get home and get cleaned up and changed and get out it's pushing 7:00pm. Because I live out in the boonies - it would be near 8:00 before I could actually do anything.

Anyone else get what I am trying to say because I certainly can't say it.
 
I get it. I have a couple of close friends, but no BF. And even if you can't go - it's nice to be thought of and asked! I always seemed to be the one who was forgotten about... never quite on the inside circle anywhere. If it weren't for my husband - I'd probably still be there now.
 
mbrek said:
I get it. I have a couple of close friends, but no BF. And even if you can't go - it's nice to be thought of and asked! I always seemed to be the one who was forgotten about... never quite on the inside circle anywhere. If it weren't for my husband - I'd probably still be there now.
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Exactly, I have always been on the outer edges of society. I have one or two that will accept me for a little while until they get busy with their own lives, we grow apart, or there is a falling out of some sort. I never get asked to go anywhere.

The closest I get is my only friend (who happens to be my ex-gf) calling and asking when I will be over at her place. That's it.

Sometimes I wish I could get asked to go somewhere by a group of ladies at church. They can text me and say hey we are going out to see such and such movie and eat at a restaurant, we would love it if you could come too.

But no, never. I grew up never getting invited anywhere. My parents told me it was because I was different. When they said that I felt like there was something horribly wrong with me that nobody liked.

I guess I got stuck with this label of being a homebody that everyone thinks I would just rather spend my time at home doing nothing. However, if I try to pull something together, no one can come. They've all got plans so I end up having to just call it off.

Maybe that's what I want for my birthday. A nice dinner at a restaurant with some friends and maybe a movie or something a bit more entertaining. I don't know. What do 28 year olds do? I'm not a normal 27 year old and my birthday is in a couple of weeks.
 
Aw Dixie...you cool, if I near you, I come hang out you often! :hug:
 
I am thinking wtf is going on. I think my friends are attempting to put together a surprise b-day party that would even surprise me.

yesterday, my ex-gf asked me out of blue to be her date for her friend's wedding. I thought it was a very unusual request. She is pretty and she should be able to get anybody to go with her. I told her that it better not be some surprise party for me cuz I don't really want a party. And I also asked her to ask my friend cuz I know he likes her and he would love to be her wedding date.

Her reply was "I ASKED YOU!"

oooooooooooooooookkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk! :io:

I guess we'll see what happens this Friday ¯\(°_o)/¯
 
Is thinking, do celebs and famous/politics/etc key people post on forums?
Do we ever know or would we believe if we're talking to one?
 
Jiro said:
I am thinking wtf is going on. I think my friends are attempting to put together a surprise b-day party that would even surprise me.

yesterday, my ex-gf asked me out of blue to be her date for her friend's wedding. I thought it was a very unusual request. She is pretty and she should be able to get anybody to go with her. I told her that it better not be some surprise party for me cuz I don't really want a party. And I also asked her to ask my friend cuz I know he likes her and he would love to be her wedding date.

Her reply was "I ASKED YOU!"

oooooooooooooooookkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk! :io:

I guess we'll see what happens this Friday ¯\(°_o)/¯
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it seems to me that she still has some leftover that she cares about you tooo much. just watch out for the tiny dramas or not. lol
 
Frisky Feline said:
it seems to me that she still has some leftover that she cares about you tooo much.
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lol not likely. probably because she didn't want any complication or send wrong signal to any other guy she asks. I guess it's a safer bet to ask ex. I wouldn't worry about possibility of getting back together lol. not gonna happen since she's gonna be away for 2 years in Europe.

My reply to that.... :wave:

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just watch out for the tiny dramas or not. lol
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oh yea - looks like it was for real but she cancelled it because she didn't want to go alone. the host already gave away her +1 spot to other friend so we hung out with her friends instead.

¯\(°_o)/¯
 
Dixie said:
Exactly, I have always been on the outer edges of society. I have one or two that will accept me for a little while until they get busy with their own lives, we grow apart, or there is a falling out of some sort. I never get asked to go anywhere.

The closest I get is my only friend (who happens to be my ex-gf) calling and asking when I will be over at her place. That's it.

Sometimes I wish I could get asked to go somewhere by a group of ladies at church. They can text me and say hey we are going out to see such and such movie and eat at a restaurant, we would love it if you could come too.

But no, never. I grew up never getting invited anywhere. My parents told me it was because I was different. When they said that I felt like there was something horribly wrong with me that nobody liked.

I guess I got stuck with this label of being a homebody that everyone thinks I would just rather spend my time at home doing nothing. However, if I try to pull something together, no one can come. They've all got plans so I end up having to just call it off.

Maybe that's what I want for my birthday. A nice dinner at a restaurant with some friends and maybe a movie or something a bit more entertaining. I don't know. What do 28 year olds do? I'm not a normal 27 year old and my birthday is in a couple of weeks.
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I was invited as a child and I invited other people to my birthday parties, and so on and so forth. But I have a tendency never (or seldom) to establish local friendship. So after moving around a lot as a tween (teenager + 20-29 year old), I only have distant friendship with various people.

Cannot hear people, don't understand the role of small talk, hence no local friendship.

I just spend my time working and reading papers/magazines on the Internet. I am good at knowing what is happening in the world but I never know what is happening around the corner.
 
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lanapoo said:
Men are complete cowards. Well, a lot of them are.
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Amen!

I am thinking about the school district to approve me teaching zumba spring semester :)
 
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