Do you think a separate or divorced couple should keep in touch regarding about themselves or only about their kid/kids?
My next door neighbor is going thru a divorce but is separated right now. She has her son with her and her husband has been bugging her about what "she" has done and how "she" treated him but she told him she doesn't love him anymore and if he wants to talk, he has to talk about her son, not her. He says "they're" still married and he has a right to talk about her. She told him they're no longer living together anymore and she's in the process of getting the divorce finalled. She said her husband still loves her but she doesn't love him. She had her reasons. She said her husband even welcomes himself into her house and she told him he wasn't welcome in the house anymore that they should be outside talking. Her husband wouldn't even let her in his house so why should he come in hers? IMO, I think she did the right thing if she's comfortable that way. Its her house, her life, and her son is in the middle of this. She asked me if she was doing the right thing and I specifically told her that if they're not together anymore, he should only be speaking for his son, not her. So, I decided to ask you all what your opinion is.
My next door neighbor is going thru a divorce but is separated right now. She has her son with her and her husband has been bugging her about what "she" has done and how "she" treated him but she told him she doesn't love him anymore and if he wants to talk, he has to talk about her son, not her. He says "they're" still married and he has a right to talk about her. She told him they're no longer living together anymore and she's in the process of getting the divorce finalled. She said her husband still loves her but she doesn't love him. She had her reasons. She said her husband even welcomes himself into her house and she told him he wasn't welcome in the house anymore that they should be outside talking. Her husband wouldn't even let her in his house so why should he come in hers? IMO, I think she did the right thing if she's comfortable that way. Its her house, her life, and her son is in the middle of this. She asked me if she was doing the right thing and I specifically told her that if they're not together anymore, he should only be speaking for his son, not her. So, I decided to ask you all what your opinion is.