Thank you hoichi! This is much more approachable than your usual rants calling people "creeps" etc. I do agree with one of the people that commented that they do need to acknowledge that hearing parents are most likely to be grieving upon learning that their baby is deaf. There are a few other terms that it feels like they really had to search to find something else to use rather than the common term.
This really does seem to include both sides.
Frisky, I am not quite sure what group you are referring to when you say "lead k peeps"