flowerchild_dreamer
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Okay, so to start off with..I am in a deaf hearing relationship, me being the hearing one. We have been dating for just a few months now and I am beginning to wonder of his paranoia level. He has told me stories of deaf, hearing relationships where the hearing person finds it easier to cheat just because the partner is deaf. I completely understood his concerns, telling him that I was not the type of girl who would cheat on anyone. And then during one of his visits I was on my ipad typing something and allowed him to play on it while I had a shower. During this time I received a message from a past boyfriend *ironic right* I hadn't talked to in almost 3 years. He of course opened it. Returning into the room, I found him sitting on the bed with a sad look on his face. "What's wrong?" I asked. He went on to explain that my ex still liked me...and so on. I of course thought it was a joke. He handed me my ipad and I realized he was serious. I explained to him that just because my ex felt that way didn't mean I felt the same. I was committed to him and him alone. He went on to say again how easy it would be for me to cheat, that I would probably become tired of signing and just go date a hearing guy. I explained I learned to sign fluently for him. The next day we traveled back home and he fell asleep on the couch. I decided to call my aunt. He wakes up, sees me talking on the phone, and accuses me of talking with my ex. I cannot explain enough that he is an "ex" for a reason. Now..I just feel that should he see me on the phone..or Facebook..or even typing anything he will feel like I am cheating. Does anyone know what I should do?