Congrats with your finding true love.
May I ask you what kind of online dating did you use? I tried Deafsinglesconnection but so far it sucks
Yes, I did use DSC and that is how I met her. Yes sometime DSC sucks, but just have to keep on trying.
Secondly, from reading the rest of the discussion here, Some people said it's best to talk on VP first. It does help but it not all going to work out. Meeting someone in person are very important too. Of course you get to go out with him/her for a drink or coffee or such. I met one woman and it was like "OMG"...she was wearing very heavy perfume, it's so strong that it made me almost passed out. So I honestly explain to her if she would mind to cut down on perfume and she flatly refused. She said she love that smell. I was like....in back of my head "controlling person?" or "she seem doesn't care about other person wishes?" and so on.
So, having VP is good but you won't get sense of smell, taste, touch, you know? There are other time when I met a woman and she invited me into her place, and she need to take her dog out. I quickly glance around her room and I happen to saw her desk filled with letters and some are from banks with big red stamps saying "Final Notice" and such. That give me an "red flag" that she was having a financial difficulty.
You know, there are some people who will not tell me everything. Also, what I hate the most is that she was trying to make "equal" with me like if I say "I read books a lot" and she will say, "Oh me too!". Then later she was having difficulty reading a letter and she not sure what it saying. Then she asked me if I understand what it was saying. So I asked myself in my head, "Does she really read books?" So, there's lot of "catch 22" involved. Anytime I see something like that, I would call the garbage disposal service to dump her.
The woman I married, she truely honest with everything, from A to Z, all the IM, E-mails, webcam conversation matched everything like she was in person. She's out open herself up of who she is. If she started very honest in the very beginning, then thing will go smoothly. No white lie, no hidden info about her. It's perfect.
This is what I mean that you have to be careful and watch her surrounding. Don't let her attractiveness blind sided you. Just pay attention to her mind and learn more about her. Soon you will find a perfect mindmate.
it's like the opposite for me. Curiously, the "crazy"/pyschos are the ones I meet in person (randomly) first.
