Octuplets' grandmother faces foreclosure threat

shel90

Audist are not welcome
Premium Member
BTW - I am working 2 jobs and I will start a 3rd job this summer, I am a single parent, live with my parents, and I don't draw food stamps, WIC, or welfare. The only aid I receive is ARKids 1st which is health insurance for children from low-income families.

Once I am able to get a job with good health insurance benefits I plan on getting employer based insurance on my child and off of ARKids 1st. I believe if you have health insurance available to you through an employer - you should use it and have it payroll deducted to cover you and your children instead of mooching from the state medicaid.

Wow! U will get a 3rd job? I know what's that like...when I was a single mom, EVEN with a MA degree, I worked two full time jobs to support myself and my daughter...I put in 80 hours a week for two years. Gotta do what u gotta do, heh?
 

Bottesini

Old Deaf Ranter
Premium Member
BTW - I am working 2 jobs and I will start a 3rd job this summer, I am a single parent, live with my parents, and I don't draw food stamps, WIC, or welfare. The only aid I receive is ARKids 1st which is health insurance for children from low-income families.

Once I am able to get a job with good health insurance benefits I plan on getting employer based insurance on my child and off of ARKids 1st. I believe if you have health insurance available to you through an employer - you should use it and have it payroll deducted to cover you and your children instead of mooching from the state medicaid.

And you are admirable for doing it. I applaud you. :)
 

Dixie

Farting Snowflakes
Premium Member
Wow! U will get a 3rd job? I know what's that like...when I was a single mom, EVEN with a MA degree, I worked two full time jobs to support myself and my daughter...I put in 80 hours a week for two years. Gotta do what u gotta do, heh?

It boils down to survival and a desire to be completely self-sufficient.

I have a cousin that is the total opposite of me. She is on foodstamps, WIC, welfare, Medicaid, you name it, she receives it. She doesnt keep a job for more than 6 months at a time, lied on her Section 8 housing application (it was obviously denied), has two children by two different fathers, both out of wedlock, and a third one by a 3rd unknown father due at the end of next month. Has no job is not eligible for unemployment so has NO income and has no intentions of finding a job, nor is she even looking for one.

Oh and she been pregnant more than 3 times, this would be her 8th or 9th pregnancy. She had 3 abortions that I know of, as well as one miscarriage.

She has promised us she will have her tubes tied and burned after this one. I somehow don't forsee this happening unless someone personally escorts her to the doctor and personally sees that she is not released until the procedure is done. But that is not legal under HIPAA.
 

Gypsytda

New Member
Latest..

Have ya'all seen the latest on the society sponge?
She is "buying" an over 1/2 million dollar home.. How is what I wonder!
She is also receiving 24/7 FREE nursing care.. that would cost a responsible person nearly $150K a month!

I hear blame pointed at the doctor/office who did the invitro.. while yes that was wrong, but there are not controls in place to preven this.. there should be basically a financial release, somehting that proves a person can afford any children produced via invitro.

The blame becomes 100% to this irresponsible baby dispenser!

A person who wants to adopt has to have classes, back ground check, proof they can support the child(ren).. but if someone has invitro.. where are the checks & balances on that?

She is a human PEZ dispenser..and serves no benefit to society.. her behavior is selfish and idiotic.

She has been quoted saying she does not receive welfare.. but ANY assistance via taxpayers, handed out from thegovernment.. is Welfare! Someone please educate her.. because she is raising a farm of future welfare recipients.. they will learn by example that they too can sponge off society and hold out their hand, and screw up and expect someone else to pay for it!

Her mother, the enabler of this sponge.. foreclosure.. also a great example for her daughter and the brood of future welfare cases!

The HUGE hospital bill paid for by taxpayers. Her foodstamps.. taxpayers. Her free nursing care.. tax payers. the list goes on.

The whole story is sickening but sadly also a statement of our current time.. that there are too many people who EXPECT or think they are ENTITLED to sponge off society, who think they should get the BIG house, who expect that they should get the highest paying job with out paying any dues.. this is a world of instant gratification.. people who just holdout their hand..

We see thatin the bank bail outs, the big 3 automakers bailouts, the bevy of bailouts that are in line behind them.. we see it in honest small businesses trying to make a living but being squashed by irresponsible greedy selfish people/companies etc.

This is a sick time.. I just hope reality strikes and people wise up.. Work will do MANY out there good.. and WORK is definitely what this mooch (octomom) needs!
 

Babyblue

New Member
Have ya'all seen the latest on the society sponge?
She is "buying" an over 1/2 million dollar home.. How is what I wonder!
She is also receiving 24/7 FREE nursing care.. that would cost a responsible person nearly $150K a month!

I hear blame pointed at the doctor/office who did the invitro.. while yes that was wrong, but there are not controls in place to preven this.. there should be basically a financial release, somehting that proves a person can afford any children produced via invitro.

The blame becomes 100% to this irresponsible baby dispenser!

A person who wants to adopt has to have classes, back ground check, proof they can support the child(ren).. but if someone has invitro.. where are the checks & balances on that?

She is a human PEZ dispenser..and serves no benefit to society.. her behavior is selfish and idiotic.

She has been quoted saying she does not receive welfare.. but ANY assistance via taxpayers, handed out from thegovernment.. is Welfare! Someone please educate her.. because she is raising a farm of future welfare recipients.. they will learn by example that they too can sponge off society and hold out their hand, and screw up and expect someone else to pay for it!

Her mother, the enabler of this sponge.. foreclosure.. also a great example for her daughter and the brood of future welfare cases!

The HUGE hospital bill paid for by taxpayers. Her foodstamps.. taxpayers. Her free nursing care.. tax payers. the list goes on.

The whole story is sickening but sadly also a statement of our current time.. that there are too many people who EXPECT or think they are ENTITLED to sponge off society, who think they should get the BIG house, who expect that they should get the highest paying job with out paying any dues.. this is a world of instant gratification.. people who just holdout their hand..

We see thatin the bank bail outs, the big 3 automakers bailouts, the bevy of bailouts that are in line behind them.. we see it in honest small businesses trying to make a living but being squashed by irresponsible greedy selfish people/companies etc.

This is a sick time.. I just hope reality strikes and people wise up.. Work will do MANY out there good.. and WORK is definitely what this mooch (octomom) needs!


Do you have the link or the sources that you can provide to this site that states that she is buying a 1/2 a million dollar home?



Pez dispenser! Good one! :laugh2:
 

Tousi

Well-Known Member
It boils down to survival and a desire to be completely self-sufficient.

I have a cousin that is the total opposite of me. She is on foodstamps, WIC, welfare, Medicaid, you name it, she receives it. She doesnt keep a job for more than 6 months at a time, lied on her Section 8 housing application (it was obviously denied), has two children by two different fathers, both out of wedlock, and a third one by a 3rd unknown father due at the end of next month. Has no job is not eligible for unemployment so has NO income and has no intentions of finding a job, nor is she even looking for one.

Oh and she been pregnant more than 3 times, this would be her 8th or 9th pregnancy. She had 3 abortions that I know of, as well as one miscarriage.

She has promised us she will have her tubes tied and burned after this one. I somehow don't forsee this happening unless someone personally escorts her to the doctor and personally sees that she is not released until the procedure is done. But that is not legal under HIPAA.

Is that all? :giggle: Anyway, you go, girl!
 

Dixie

Farting Snowflakes
Premium Member
:ty: Tousi.

My cousin recently got caught selling her food stamps, she is ineligible for government assistance of any kind for 5 years now, maybe this will be a wake up call that she needs to get her act together and FAST if she plans on keeping her children because as it stands there is enough evidence for CPS to come and at least investigate, and I'm sure there is enough damning evidence to have the kids taken away, its just not out in the open for the neighbors to see.

She's due at the end of this month. She needs to be looking NOW to find a daycare to enroll ALL children into, and find a job and tell them she can start as soon as the doctor releases her, which can be anywhere from 6-8 weeks. People like her should undergo a mental evaluation just to find out what goes through their heads.
 
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Dixie

Farting Snowflakes
Premium Member
I'm thinking "Attention Whore", she was complaining of the media yet she had granted special inside access to the tabloid rag show "The Insider". :roll: Im thinking they are going to bring the babies home two at a time so that she can adjust to them slowly rather than all at once. I also read where the ospital told Nadya that the only wy they were going to release the children to her is if she could improve their living conditions (IE - remodel grandma's house to safety specs) and instead she is rewarded with a new house for her stupidity and blatant lack of thought for the other 6 children.
 

Rio

Brady lady
Premium Member
Yes, she's the "attention whore" all right. In these hardship times people making ends meet and others issues arise due to the economy and this lady is gaining tremendous amounts of assistance from organizations and etc.. Most people are concern of the well being of these innocent babies and children.
 

Dixie

Farting Snowflakes
Premium Member
In our elementary school there's 4 aide's for the Kindergarten classes, and in the 1-4th grades about three teachers share one aide a piece, and the aide works mainly with Title I students.
 

GarnetTigerMom

New Member
I'm not going to excuse for what the octo-mom did with making an error in her judgment but however, I have to say - It's really sad to see all of boils down to this.

I have to agree with Jo on this one. She did say she wanted a big family but not think the life it can lead to those childrens she having. She out of her mind.:cool2:
 

BradB08

New Member
I find the contempt for this woman to be as equally disturbing as her decisions.

Sterilization? Death threats? Mean-spirited comments?

Surely you folks would probably say differently if you were in a similar situation? Plus, you can claim that you wouldn't do this, do that but we really have no way of knowing what we'd do if it came to it.

On the other hand, Child Services should take away every single one of those kids and adopt them out. The grandmother should not have to share the burden of caring for them and she obviously can't.
 

BradB08

New Member
If there is a renewal of the eugenics movement - I will blame the octomom for it.

There had better not be.

I find the comments about sterilization to be very, very disturbing. Some of you should be ashamed of yourselves. Are you not aware of history and how people have been forced into sterilization in the past? I personally have family members who were forced underground by the threat of forced sterilization in the 1930s simply because they are Native Americans.

ANY form of sterilization is immoral and wrong. Period. What we need are stronger child services to make sure that these children get the care that they deserve. There should not be calls for sterilization.
 

Reba

Retired Terp
Premium Member
I don't support forced sterilization for anyone.

On the other hand, I don't support multiple tax-supported fertility treatments for single women.
 
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