Need some advice

Tiff Coffer

New Member
So, I’m looking for a girlfriend (I’m questioning, leaning towards lesbian) and I keep running into straight girls, like literally every girl I crush on ends up being straight. It may be my deaf-blindness causing me to misread social cues, but am I looking in the wrong places? I tend to find crushes everywhere I go, even out in public. I even crushed on one in summer camp. Not every girl, it’s a bit of an exaggeration. Some are already taken. I’ve learned to respect that, but really? My gaydar is usually very good, it even helped me find some allies! But the thing is, I still need help. What could be the problem?


Well-Known Member
Hang out at the gay/lesbian bars?...I'm straight...and 9 times out of 10, I can tell (get the feeling) when someone is gay...Wear some Gay Pride T-shirts?...Perhaps you're looking to "convert" a straight girl/boy?...