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<blockquote data-quote="x1heavy" data-source="post: 2550371" data-attributes="member: 97095">It was not all roses I can tell you that.My family had a history of vicious knife stabbing divorces etc. That left a impression on us kids. Dysfunctional even. What a mess.I told my ex that life goes on and friendship is going to be the goal rather than the knife sharpening, so if there is anything you needed to get out of your system nows the time. (That took about 4 months. 4 difficult months.) in the end there is nothing left to fight over. I would not go so far to say it's paradise either. We are a team and will be for a long time whatever happens. Not necessarily a cohesive harmonious team. When enough time passes in our case going on 25 years things tend to find a balance.We both kind of like it now, peaceful and more quiet able to think things through and deal with it better. No chaos or trouble with random people coming through the place. We had enough of a public life in trucking. So.. its all good. There are certain activities and locations we do miss but eh... we'll see how it goes.At the end of the day its plenty. I suppose we teach each other sometimes when we don't understand one another sometimes. Then we must laugh and tease one another with words on how it could go. Playing devils advocate in a way until we find a solution then follow through.As they say here in the South Times Gone. You cannot get it back tomorrow. However if you did have a tomorrow to make it a better day with someone.... would you? IF you can answer that and how etc. Then go for it.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="x1heavy, post: 2550371, member: 97095"] It was not all roses I can tell you that. My family had a history of vicious knife stabbing divorces etc. That left a impression on us kids. Dysfunctional even. What a mess. I told my ex that life goes on and friendship is going to be the goal rather than the knife sharpening, so if there is anything you needed to get out of your system nows the time. (That took about 4 months. 4 difficult months.) in the end there is nothing left to fight over. I would not go so far to say it's paradise either. We are a team and will be for a long time whatever happens. Not necessarily a cohesive harmonious team. When enough time passes in our case going on 25 years things tend to find a balance. We both kind of like it now, peaceful and more quiet able to think things through and deal with it better. No chaos or trouble with random people coming through the place. We had enough of a public life in trucking. So.. its all good. There are certain activities and locations we do miss but eh... we'll see how it goes. At the end of the day its plenty. I suppose we teach each other sometimes when we don't understand one another sometimes. Then we must laugh and tease one another with words on how it could go. Playing devils advocate in a way until we find a solution then follow through. As they say here in the South Times Gone. You cannot get it back tomorrow. However if you did have a tomorrow to make it a better day with someone.... would you? IF you can answer that and how etc. Then go for it. [/QUOTE]

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