Hello there peeps. I don't like to.complain, no one really gets amywhere that way. But, since this is a relationship thread, I thought I could ask.
I was recently in a relationship with a man who could not hold a job. I put up with it because I had a job at the time. He kept telling me he would find one soon, and that his family was sending money. I was like okay, thats fine. Well, I got down in my health, and needed help more than ever. I found us living with my adopted family, and he still had not found a job. I had long since left mine, with the assurance that I could return.
He told my whole family he was gonna get a job. Finally he supposedly did well, on valentines day we went out. Coming back from the movies we got stopped by police. My title had not been changed yet. He got taken to jail like other times, and I went home.
After a few days, I kept getting emails that he was cheating on me. So I was looking for evidence, and found his profile on OK Cupid. I was hurt, and decided to go see my friends. I checked his bank because he told me I could use it, and found he stole my adopted sisters check.
I was mad! To cut a long story short and get to my question. I broke it off with him, and found out from his friends that I had such a bad disability that I had to be taken care of like a child, and that my car was his. I felt guilty for all of this, but am not anymore. Anyway, he calls me constantly still amd won't take a hint. He is hearing by the way.
I am at a loss for what to do. I keep telling him to leave me be, but he won't. I am trying to move on with my life, and feel like I cannot. What should I do? And has any of you had a problem like this?
Thank you for your reply!
I was recently in a relationship with a man who could not hold a job. I put up with it because I had a job at the time. He kept telling me he would find one soon, and that his family was sending money. I was like okay, thats fine. Well, I got down in my health, and needed help more than ever. I found us living with my adopted family, and he still had not found a job. I had long since left mine, with the assurance that I could return.
He told my whole family he was gonna get a job. Finally he supposedly did well, on valentines day we went out. Coming back from the movies we got stopped by police. My title had not been changed yet. He got taken to jail like other times, and I went home.
After a few days, I kept getting emails that he was cheating on me. So I was looking for evidence, and found his profile on OK Cupid. I was hurt, and decided to go see my friends. I checked his bank because he told me I could use it, and found he stole my adopted sisters check.
I was mad! To cut a long story short and get to my question. I broke it off with him, and found out from his friends that I had such a bad disability that I had to be taken care of like a child, and that my car was his. I felt guilty for all of this, but am not anymore. Anyway, he calls me constantly still amd won't take a hint. He is hearing by the way.
I am at a loss for what to do. I keep telling him to leave me be, but he won't. I am trying to move on with my life, and feel like I cannot. What should I do? And has any of you had a problem like this?
Thank you for your reply!
