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Gemtun
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Tara, you mentioned in the other thread that you and your sister are hearing children of deaf parents. I was impressed by your love of Deaf Culture and the fact that you would incorporate ASL into your art. That sparked my curiousity.
I am a deaf single mom of 2 girls. They are now 9 and 8. While I realize that my situation is not same as yours as my ex is hearing but I wanted to ask you anyway.
Do you have any suggestions how I could help my daughters become more comfortable with Deaf Culture? Growing up, did you get embarassed when your classmates met your deaf parents? Did you get also embarrassed when store cashiers or strangers talk to your parents and see that your parents didnt respond to them appropriately?
For example, I was at the store today with my youngest daughter, Caroline. She poked me in my waist and pointed at a stranger. I looked up to see this person asking me if I needed any help. Caroline ran off as fast as she could.My daughters tend to do that - they tend to look away and point at a stranger talking to me. After the store, we stopped at Starbucks. The barista was asking us what we wanted. I was looking at the menu and didn't realize the barista was talking to me. Again, Caroline poked me in my waist and pointed at the barista. Caroline also ran off in this instance.
Sometimes I feel that my daughters are embarrased of me and want to run off so that they wouldnt get stuck in uncomfortable situations with me also.
I guess what I am trying to ask is that how did you really feel when you were growing up with deaf parents and dealing with the public? My daughters does not sign much and I have been trying but they are too impatient.
Hope Im making sense.
I am a deaf single mom of 2 girls. They are now 9 and 8. While I realize that my situation is not same as yours as my ex is hearing but I wanted to ask you anyway.
Do you have any suggestions how I could help my daughters become more comfortable with Deaf Culture? Growing up, did you get embarassed when your classmates met your deaf parents? Did you get also embarrassed when store cashiers or strangers talk to your parents and see that your parents didnt respond to them appropriately?
For example, I was at the store today with my youngest daughter, Caroline. She poked me in my waist and pointed at a stranger. I looked up to see this person asking me if I needed any help. Caroline ran off as fast as she could.My daughters tend to do that - they tend to look away and point at a stranger talking to me. After the store, we stopped at Starbucks. The barista was asking us what we wanted. I was looking at the menu and didn't realize the barista was talking to me. Again, Caroline poked me in my waist and pointed at the barista. Caroline also ran off in this instance.
Sometimes I feel that my daughters are embarrased of me and want to run off so that they wouldnt get stuck in uncomfortable situations with me also.
I guess what I am trying to ask is that how did you really feel when you were growing up with deaf parents and dealing with the public? My daughters does not sign much and I have been trying but they are too impatient.
Hope Im making sense.