I get bitter... and more angry and feel that nobody cares about me
then I will say that I don't care about them... I'll be grouchy
and therapists can't do anything about it.
But everytime people help me or offer me something, maybe like a job...
I'll be a better person.
How can I be a better person when people keep making me suffer?
I remember this guy Eric, he gave me a hug, it really makes me smile and a better person on
that day until my roommates at Gally kept reporting me for no reason.
It is how we see it, but it is how the person shows it too. We can take it anyway we can, but if the person is grumpy and don't want help then we say they are bitter. If the same person accepts our help and give us advise ontop of his pain, then that person is better and we will say that person is too.
Reba's post
People who already have a sour, negative attitude will usually become even more bitter. They focus on their own problems, and blame others.
People who already have a humble, positive attitude will usually become even better. They focus on other people's needs, and take responsibility for their own outcomes.
PAST???
What about people with cancer with awful pain.... ??? How that will
make them a better person?
If I was in deep pain,, I would tell everyone to go away...
and tell children to stop playing... and let me rest...
Yeah I be bitter about dying and suffering.
I thought the poster meant making people suffering will make them a better people...
I was like, how can that be... making people suffering will make them better?
My mom spank her grandchild... and it seems like he is getting worse and worst.
Same thing with me, my sister and I always in big fight, arguing, and people hanging up on me rudely, and get frustrated more and be more bitter.
And same thing with DOG
If you spank that dog, it won't obey, it will run away.
If you give the dog treat everytime he obey, then that is a solution.
And of course,, Suffering make people bitter....
Just like
that pregnant woman who slapped her husband while she is suffering
labor pain...
What is wrong with that???
My beloved friend died from cancer Saturday - she fought against cancer for past 5 years but it never stopped her from being very positive and happy. She lived her life the best as she could to the very end. Im deeply grieving for her as she was truly a bright light in my life. She choose to be a better person and spread her joy around, instead of feeling sorry for herself and being angry & bitter.
Bless her soul!
My beloved friend died from cancer Saturday - she fought against cancer for past 5 years but it never stopped her from being very positive and happy. She lived her life the best as she could to the very end. Im deeply grieving for her as she was truly a bright light in my life. She choose to be a better person and spread her joy around, instead of feeling sorry for herself and being angry & bitter.
Bless her soul!
Right-o! We can't always control what other people do to us but we can control how we react.
PAST???
What about people with cancer with awful pain.... ??? How that will
make them a better person?
If I was in deep pain,, I would tell everyone to go away...
and tell children to stop playing... and let me rest...
Yeah I be bitter about dying and suffering.
well everybody is different. we all have free will. if some of us wanna be bitter
then let us...
Well then go for it Empress!!!
People with cancer is a different story..I think they are very strong to fight as long as they can dealing with it..
Not everyone with cancer would be bitter about dying & suffering..