Iv experienced this as well and iv been laughed at by a terp for issues that I wish only my doctor would here well the terp was also not very shall I say lgbt friendly and there was almost disgust and my did it show
Kate bornstien is great but like I said if you like to get to know me pm me
And to ask a non-binary or trans person asking their sex or things like there previous name is In my opinion is a moot point and inappropriate